From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your your co-host along with my beautiful wife

Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call on the hug hotline at 858.

876-5-63.

That's 858-8-7-6-63.

In today's show we talk about how you can have mind-blowing sex and surprisingly it has very little to do with the act itself.

And I want each of you to think about this quote from Jim Rone. He says,

Your life does not get better by chance it gets better by change and you know we could take this a step further and say that your sex life does not get better by chance it gets better by change.

And I think that's something we're going to dig into in today's show,

but that's something that a lot of people leave up to chance, right?

Having my, there's a reason, there's a reason we're talking about mind-blowing sex

and it's because a lot of people

you know they get caught up in well it should just happen and so we're going to be

talking about that today but you guys know that have been with us a long time and for those

of you that are brand new

listeners we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug and

this week's hug is sponsored by care.com and you can check them out at care.com slash one.

Because here's the fact guys.

We have so many things going on in our lives

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