375: WHEN TRANSITIONS HAPPEN

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 9 May 2017

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

"Honor the space between no longer and not yet." —Nancy Levin When you are married, transitions don’t only affect you, they also affect your spouse. Transitions can impact the different intimacies in your marriage. Marriage is full of transitions: First house First baby Moves Job changes Job losses Taking care of kids Taking care of your parents One income Two incomes Kids becoming adults And the list goes on You can seemingly be going along thinking... "Ah, life is good, we’ve got everything figured out", then BAM transition comes. Or, you’re planning for a natural transition, kids growing up, buying a house, moving and yet, no matter how much you plan for it, there are still situations in that transition that catch you off guard. Everyone handles transitions differently. Some people jump right in, put their blinders on and power through whatever that change is. Some people can become paralyzed with all of the decisions that have to be made, they can feel helpless in those seasons, not knowing which way is the right way to go and so they withdraw from doing anything. For some, transitions feel very uncertain, and there is a high level of fear. For others, the transitions may be unwelcome or unplanned and there is a high level of anger or sadness. All of these reactions will impact you and your spouse. In this week’s show Tony and Alisa talk about how you can navigate life, work and other transitions you will face together as a team. EPISODE SPONSOR | HelloFresh HelloFresh is the meal kit delivery service that makes cooking fun, easy, and convenient! Each week HelloFresh creates new delicious recipes with step-by-step instructions designed to take around 30 minutes. For novices to seasoned home-cooks who are short on time HelloFresh sources the freshest ingredients, measured to the exact quantities needed so there’s no food waste. Take $30 off your first week of deliveries when you enter promo code OEM30. Other Resources: 140 - Scheduling Sex Strategic Coaching Session with Alisa Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.
0:03.7	We're being busy as overdone.
0:05.2	Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:10.3	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co--host along with my beautiful wife Elisa.
0:14.4	From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.
0:17.6	It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.
0:20.5	Give us a call on the hug hotline at 858-76563.
0:24.4	That's 858-876-5663.
0:28.2	In today's show we talk about how you can navigate life, work, and other transitions you will
0:34.9	face together as a team.
0:37.0	And I want you to think about this quote from Nancy Levin as we start today's show, and
0:40.1	it says, honor the space between no longer and not yet.
0:46.0	And just in case you're all wondering that space between no longer
0:49.4	and not yet, that's called the transition space.
0:51.8	And that's what we're going to be digging into today.
0:53.3	But we start each and every one extraordinary marriage
0:55.9	show with a hug.
0:57.1	And this week's hug is sponsored by Hello Fresh.
1:00.2	You can check them out at hello fresh.com.
1:03.0	Guys, we love hello fresh.
1:05.0	They're a meal kit delivery service that makes cooking so much more fun
1:09.0	so you can just focus on the time that the two of you have to get those.
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