I think nice guys put too much emphasis on the relationship being the single most

important thing in their life. Now is it one of the most important things in your life?

It should be in my opinion, but should it be, should it supersede other things that are in the same category this the same

tier I don't think so I think maybe that's a defining factor in it for the nice guys

how do we switch that I don't know that there's like a secret it. repetitions in, right? I think experience is the best teacher for a lot of reasons and the only way that a

perspective like that will change is either hitting rock bottom and finally understanding which way is up or just you know failing forward and

and really those are just two ways to do the same thing but I think a perspective shift

or a reframe is a byproduct of those things. What is happening?

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So Chris, before the camera started rolling, maybe we got some of that footage, we were talking a little bit about bringing up sex and at what point of the dating

history you have with somebody do you bring up sex I have said before on the podcast so like,

yo, first date as soon as I know. I think we might be similar in this.

Like, I've never had a bad first date. Never in my life. Like, you could be

boring as fuck and I'm gonna have a great time like I'm bringing the

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