I've definitely noticed some relationships where I want to be sure that I don't end up in this role or I've done the other two where it's like hey you know I'm going to talk to you about a goal

that I have or something that I want to change in my life but I want to be very clear

that I don't want you to be my coach for that or I don't want you to be the one who feels like it's your responsibility to nag me or get on me about doing it.

This is my thing. I want you to know so you can support me, but I want to be really clear that we're not going to end up in these dynamics.

Welcome to the Multiannary Podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily. And I'm Dedicher.

We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past.

So whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you.

Fongs I know I did.

Forson made up for myself to fit. On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast, we are continuing on to part two of our discussion on repeating unhealthy relationship patterns and dating similar personality types.

So today we're going to be exploring these ideas. and dating similar personality types.

So today we're going to be exploring these ideas further,

including discussing some specific considerations

for people in non-monogamous relationships,

some that make that a little bit easier to manage, some that can make it more difficult,

as well as finally providing you with some actionable takeaways and some things that you can do

to break some of those unhealthy relationship habits.

All righty, so let's get into a little bit of a quick recap of what we went through last week.

So the overall theme of these two episodes is really to just

discuss and kind of percolate on why is it that we repeat unhealthy relationship patterns and trying to answer the question do we have a type is type a real thing or we drawn to the same type of personality when we're choosing to date someone.

Studies say yes. The two, the three of us were kind of like, yeah, definitely been there done that

before. Also last week we talked about repetition compulsion and just to give that definition again

It is in psycho analytic theory and unconscious need to reenact early traumas in the attempt to overcome or master them.

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