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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

370 - Repeating Unhealthy Relationship Patterns Part 1 of 2

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 3 May 2022

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

This week we're beginning a two-part discussion about unhealthy relationship patterns and why we sometimes tend to repeat them, sometimes even when we know they're unhealthy. We're going to be exploring why we do this, how it relates to past trauma and attachment theory, and attempt to answer the question, “Do people really have a type?”Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Maybe this is a silly comparison to make or maybe it's super profound, but if you think about

0:11.5

when you get really into a certain game, like a video game, or possibly even, you know, a game like chess or something like that.

0:19.0

It's like, I keep losing at this point, but then I keep thinking about it.

0:23.6

And it's like, what if I just could do it a little different this time?

0:26.3

What if I?

0:27.3

Right, right, like any kind of a Dark Souls camp,

0:30.4

where it's just like the thing that's addictive about it is not I know that if I do this enough

0:36.1

I'll be able to figure it out so maybe that's like on a macro level playing out in our lives.

0:45.0

Welcome to the multi-ammery podcast. I'm Jace.

0:46.0

I'm Emily.

0:47.0

And I'm Dedicher.

0:48.0

We believe in looking to the future of relationships,

0:51.0

not maintaining the status quo of the past.

0:53.6

So whether you're monogamous,

0:55.2

polyamorous, swinging, casually dating,

0:58.0

or if you just do relationships differently,

1:00.5

we see you and we're here for you.

1:03.0

Fongs I know I did.

1:10.0

Force made up for myself to fit.

1:17.0

On this episode of the multi-amory podcast,

1:21.0

we're going to be doing part one of a two-part discussion about unhealthy relationship patterns and what causes us to repeat them.

1:30.0

Many of us enter into relationships with similar people over and over again or engage in events

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