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AT HOME with Byron Katie • The Work of Byron Katie® Podcast

#37: He’s Not Into Me

AT HOME with Byron Katie • The Work of Byron Katie® Podcast

Byron Katie International, Inc.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.9870 Ratings

🗓️ 11 January 2022

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

My guest this week is Sue, who has been preparing to visit the man she loves on a boat trip with friends. But he doesn’t want to include her and tells her not to come. She feels that he’s embarrassed by her and very much unappreciated and undervalued. Is fear of disapproval a familiar theme in your life? Are you afraid of rejection? Join us as together we learn from Sue the cause of suffering and how to end it. Ready? Let’s do The Work.

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0:18.7

Hello everyone. Welcome to the podcast. Today I worked with Sue and he's not into me. That's what she was believing. This podcast is, I love it so much because it's like we think we know how to sit in inquiry, we think we're doing the work, but it's held out at such a distance. It doesn't, we don't allow it to go in and really penetrate.

0:31.6

So we invite you to open your hearts, open your minds as we sit with Sue and my

0:38.1

boyfriend is not into me.

0:40.0

Hello, what's going on? I see hands raised. What's going on? I see hands raised. What's going on? Sue? Hi, sweetie.

0:59.0

Thank you. You've calmed my mind a lot, but why I raised my hand today is, I get there's more to learn from something that, because I just I do a work sheet I find the

1:05.2

piece I find the movie I come back home and yet the next worksheets the same thing.

1:14.0

So, you know in Earth School it's not done until it's done.

1:18.0

Yeah, you know, and you do a worksheet and then life will show you,

1:22.0

Earth School will show you, or school will show you unfinished business.

1:26.2

Yeah. We don't have to take care of it, but those those, um, let's say things we need to learn.

1:34.1

Those lessons are going to keep being offered up for us

1:39.2

because we're out to sink here.

1:45.0

Yeah, well I feel like my ego even in the sheets is hiding something from me and

1:49.6

which is why I raised my hand.

1:56.5

So let's look at your work. You can't hide so easily in front of you?

2:05.0

Oh, you know, you know, I can't hide so easily in front of me either. And really, none of you out there can hide from yourself so easily.

2:09.4

That's what guilt is for.

2:10.9

You feel, you know, there's nothing you can say or do that goes against your nature.

2:16.7

Yeah.

2:17.7

You experience guilt over and it's, it can be so subtle, you don't even see it as guilt.

2:24.5

But it's it's earth school and that's one of the things that keep pointing us back

2:31.0

to you're in a dream and it's not serious, so let's wake up.

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