#369: Changing the Way We Talk About Porn (Because Women Struggle Too)
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 5 July 2021
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
“I had one woman say, ‘I struggle with masturbation.’ And she just started crying. And then she said, ‘I’ve never said that word out loud.’”
In this Java with Juli, Joy Skarka recalls her experiences walking with women struggling with porn, and shares from her own story of addiction to freedom. Despite rising numbers of women using porn and erotica, we still tend to refer to it as a "guy thing." Juli, Joy, and Jonathan Daugherty sit down for a conversation about creating safe places for women to come forward and ask for help. Grab your Java and join us!
Guests: Joy Skarka and Jonathan Daugherty (https://2.bebroken.com)
Show notes:
- Learn more about the Wisephone at https://techless.com/
- "3 Things I (Wish I Hadn't) Learned From Pornography" Joy's blog
- "3 Things to Remember About Sexual Sin & Grace" Joy's blog
- "3 Things Women Want You To Know About Their Addiction to Porn" Joy's blog
- "Grace Based Recovery" by Jonathan Daugherty*
- Java #323: Bye Awkward Side Hugs! Getting Over Our Fear of Opposite-Sex Friendships
- "Beyond Awkward Side Hugs" by Bronwyn Lea*
- "Is Homemade Porn Okay In Marriage?" Q&A Video with Jonathan Daugherty
- Find a Christian counselor near you. Here's what to look for.
- "What Do I Do With My Sexual Desires?" (Juli's blog)
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Well, we all know that smartphones are addictive and they can cause kids to check out of real |
| 0:06.6 | life and relationships. |
| 0:08.1 | But the truth is, smartphones don't just affect our kids. |
| 0:11.4 | They affect us too. |
| 0:13.1 | This is Julie Slattery, and if you're feeling overwhelmed by the influence of big tech constantly |
| 0:18.1 | in your pocket, or you want to break free from social media, |
| 0:21.7 | pornography, or digital distraction. |
| 0:24.4 | I'm really excited to introduce you to the Wise Phone from TechLus. |
| 0:28.7 | It's a company that believes that connection matters more than convenience. |
| 0:33.0 | A Wise phone is a simple phone for intentional people. |
| 0:36.4 | With it, you can call, text, it has a few basic |
| 0:39.1 | tools, but most importantly, it has no social media, no access to pornography, and no app |
| 0:45.6 | store. It's a phone for people who want to redeem their time from distracting tech and pursue |
| 0:50.7 | authentic relationships. To learn more about wise phone, go to TechLis.com. |
| 0:56.1 | That's T-E-C-H-L-E-S-S dot com. |
| 1:03.5 | Welcome to Java with Julie. |
| 1:07.5 | I am Julie Slattery, and this listener-supported podcast |
| 1:10.6 | is an outreach of authentic intimacy, |
| 1:13.0 | a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality. Well, it's really no secret that |
| 1:18.7 | the use of pornography and erotica among women is on the rise. And although we know it's happening, |
| 1:25.2 | we don't always know how to address it. |
| 1:30.3 | And that's what I'm going to talk to my guest about today. |
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