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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

#366: No More Pushing Past the Pain! God Cares About Your Sexual Pleasure

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 7 June 2021

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

What do you do when sex hurts?  Do you white-knuckle your way through it, because it’s your “duty”? In this episode, you’ll hear why trying to push through the pain doesn’t work — nor is it what God desires for you. We’ll offer advice to help you find the right provider or therapist to help you understand and treat the reason for the pain you're experiencing. You’re not alone. Grab your Java and join us.

Guests: Dr. Carol Tanksley, OB-GYN and Joy Skarka

Show notes:

  • Sexual Pleasure: How to Get Your Mind and Body to Work Together at authenticintimacy.com/event (webinar series)
  • www.drcarolministries.com
  • Check out Dr. Carol's video course, yoursexpectations.com
  • "Passion Pursuit," a 10-week study through the Song of Solomon from Linda Dillow & Dr. Juli Slattery
  • "Rethinking Sexuality" by Dr. Juli Slattery

Find links for all these resources in our show notes at https://www.authenticintimacy.com/resources/31517/366-no-more-pushing-past-the-pain-god-cares-about-your-sexual-pleasure

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Well, hey, friend, welcome to Job with Julie.

0:04.1

This podcast is the listener-supported outreach of authentic intimacy and ministry dedicated

0:09.8

to reclaiming God's design for sexuality, which, of course, will include the sex that

0:15.4

you may be having within your marriage today.

0:18.4

Some of the most frequent questions that you send to us at authentic intimacy are about

0:22.7

painful sex. And it is hard to find answers. I want you to know that you're not alone

0:28.3

when you feel like doctor visits just leave you disappointed and your friends all seem to be

0:32.9

doing fine. And you don't know who else to talk to. Well, if that's your situation or somebody you know

0:38.7

is experiencing painful sex, you're in good company today. My guest are Joy Skarka, who's the

0:45.3

director of discipleship right here at Authentic Enemacy, and Dr. Carol Tanksley. Joy is going to be

0:51.2

sharing some of her story and her struggle within marriage, and Dr. Carol, a practicing OBGYN, is going to be sharing some of her story and her struggle within marriage and Dr. Carol,

0:56.3

a practicing OBGYN, is going to help us understand the integration of our bodies,

1:01.2

our minds, and our spirits when it comes to how we experience sexuality.

1:05.8

Well, in this conversation, you're going to find some encouragement if you just feel like

1:09.4

going to yet another doctor

1:11.1

is just too much to ask. And you'll hear why it's okay to explore your body to learn what

1:16.7

feels good and what doesn't. And you'll hear how sexual pleasure is really a reflection of who

1:22.2

God is. And that's why it's so important within marriage. Now, if you haven't heard about our

1:27.3

webinar series, Sexual Pleasure, How to get your mind and body working together, you can register for that right now at authenticinimacy.com slash event.

1:36.6

Last week, I spoke with Dr. Deborah Taylor about the importance of sexual pleasure within God's greater design for intimacy.

1:43.4

And if you miss that, you're going to want to get the recording because it was a terrific

1:47.1

conversation.

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