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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

365: I HAVE A HEADACHE… LET’S HAVE SEX

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.61.7K Ratings

🗓️ 28 February 2017

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

"Sex solves most problems including headaches." —Anonymous You have a crazy headache, while on vacation, with plans to have sex, on the only night you have away from your kids. You take a nice nap to see if that would take care of it and it didn’t. You still have a headache. You're still in the hotel room you booked. And... you still have a spouse with the expectation that this is your opportunity for sex. What if having sex during this time will help your headache go away? Most of the times it's used as an excuse, an obstacle or a form of rejection. The next time you are about to say, "Not tonight, I have a headache", what if you said, "Yes, tonight! I want to get rid of this headache." What if an orgasm could relieve the pain of your headache? What if when you're not feeling well you could turn to your spouse for comfort instead of pushing them away? What if sex became the treatment to embrace instead of the action to avoid? In this week’s show Tony and Alisa talk about changing your mindset from “I can't have sex because I have a headache to let's have sexual because I have a headache.” EPISODE SPONSOR | 11 Must Have Items for Your Bedroom Discover a hit-list of all the top items we’ve used in the last 20 years of marriage to ignite intimacy, connection and comfort in the most important room of all — the bedroom! Use this list to take this show and the ideas in it to the next level as you build your toolbox with resources to make awake sex even more extraordinary. Get 11 Must Have Items for Your Bedroom NOW! Other Resources: Strategic Coaching Session with Alisa Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

0:04.0

We're being busy is overdone.

0:05.7

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex is taking the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

0:10.5

I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

0:14.0

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

0:20.0

Give us a call on the hug hotline at 858-765-663.

0:25.0

That's 8-58-8-7-65-663.

0:28.0

In today's show, we talk about changing your mindset from I can't have sex because I have a

0:36.0

headache to let's have sex because I have a headache.

0:40.0

And I found this quote on your tangango.com which so appropriately fits in with today's show

0:45.6

and it says sex solves most problems including headaches.

0:50.3

We're going to be talking about that in today's show, but before we get into this this week's hug and before we jump into the show

0:57.2

We've got just a little bit of fun to share with you the one extraordinary Marriage Family and this show that you are

1:04.6

listening to is officially the 365th show of the One Extraordinary Marriage

1:11.0

show which means which means that you can now listen the one extraordinary marriage show. Which means?

1:13.0

Which means that you can now listen to one extraordinary marriage every single day of the year.

1:17.6

We actually, you know what I take that back.

1:19.1

Except for leap years.

1:20.1

For every four years.

1:21.1

Don't worry, next week. Next week we'll have you covered for the

1:23.5

leap year but we just want to say thank you. Yeah. Because it's due to each one of

1:28.6

you sharing the show listening each and every week that the show has now made it to this

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