meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Porn Free Radio

364 - What do you get out of being bored?

Porn Free Radio

Matt Dobschuetz

Self-improvement, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8677 Ratings

🗓️ 20 November 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

In this episode, you will discover how your emotional state is a choice, not something that happens to you.

For more, listen to my three-part Personal Mastery series from 2020 starting with PFR 246.

Get the full show notes here:
https://recoveredman.com/364
 
PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:
 
Porn Free This Year (Free video course)
http://recoveredman.com/thisyear
 
Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz
http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group
http://recoveredman.com/rev
 
1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz
https://recoveredman.com/coaching

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

Porn Free Radio, episode 364.

0:16.0

Hey, this is Matt.

0:17.4

And in the last couple of episodes, we've talked about a number of different ideas.

0:22.8

In episode 362, we talked about integrity gaps that show up like the maintenance required light on our dashboard,

0:31.5

pointing to places where we don't have wholeness or where there's something missing or a needs going unmet in

0:39.1

our life. In episode 363, we talked about being owners of our life, not renters, and looking

0:46.9

for the ways that maybe sometimes we avoid ownership or blame others for things that are our responsibility.

0:56.5

And in today's show, I'm going to share a little more of some of the stuff I'm writing

0:59.3

for a new book.

1:00.8

And I'm going to do that in a second.

1:02.6

But, you know, if these episodes have sparked something in you, you've connected with

1:08.7

it or you've related and you realize, man, I could use

1:12.6

some help with this. Why don't you go to recoveredman.com slash coaching. That's recoveredman.com

1:19.6

slash coaching and fill out my coaching application. Now, depending on what you need, it's possible you might be a good candidate for one of our

1:30.1

rev groups getting into a group of motivated guys who want to quit looking at porn like you do

1:37.0

and who want to take action.

1:39.3

Or you might benefit from working with me one-on- one and getting some specific support about a challenge

1:47.4

you're having. So just start the conversation with me at recoveredman.com slash coaching and we'll

1:53.7

figure out what the right next step is for you. All right. So I want to get into this episode and I want to tell a story. I've been reading

2:06.4

some stories that I've been writing and I want to tell another story from a pretty recent

2:12.6

story from this summer. The meeting itself was unremarkable. I don't remember the group or the people on the

2:21.4

Zoom call that day, but I went on and on to my coach, Melissa, about how bored I was. The meeting

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Matt Dobschuetz, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Matt Dobschuetz and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.