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363 - Owners, Not Renters

Porn Free Radio

Matt Dobschuetz

Self-improvement, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8677 Ratings

🗓️ 14 November 2025

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

The core of recovery is about taking 100% ownership for your needs and choices. This episode is about shifting away from a renter mindset and embracing the freedom of being an owner in your life.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Porn Free Radio, episode 363.

0:13.0

Well, welcome to Porn Free Radio.

0:15.3

This is the podcast for motivated guys who want to quit looking at porn.

0:19.0

This is where you come to get hope and take action.

0:22.2

I'm your host, as always, Matt Dobshootschutes. Once again, back is the incredible. And we are here

0:28.4

for episode 363 and we're following up our integrity gaps episode from 362. I'm sharing some of the

0:36.7

things I'm writing for a new book I'm working on. And in episode 362. I'm sharing some of the things I'm writing for a new book I'm working on.

0:39.9

And in episode 362, I talked about integrity gaps, how they can be useful, much like a

0:46.6

car's dashboard light alerting us to the places that require greater wholeness and integration

0:53.4

in our life.

0:54.3

And I go into the idea of looking at things that we're doing,

0:59.6

looking at things that maybe reveal something's not intact underneath.

1:05.9

And I talked about different types of things.

1:08.2

Now, I'm talking specifically in recovery, but I was talking about

1:14.1

things that maybe, um, that maybe pop up in your life, uh, like lying or hiding, people

1:21.3

pleasing, uh, maybe binging on TV shows or scrolling the news, those type of things.

1:29.0

And general escapism.

1:31.8

And I got asked a question by one of the guys I was coaching and he said, hey, Matt, you know,

1:37.9

some of the things you talked about in the Integrity Gaps episode, you know, I think some of the things that i you know that i'm interested

1:45.9

in are doing would be good things uh as compared to the problematic porn use stuff um like let's say i

1:53.4

watched a show on netflix and binged it or played a video game you know story um you know what

1:59.6

did they call it story mode or campaign mode,

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