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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

#364: How To Work Your Way Back to Sexual Intimacy After Infidelity

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 24 May 2021

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

After infidelity, how do you know when to start having sex again? Recovery is layered, complex, and different for every couple. In this Java with Juli, learn what a healthy recovery process looks like for a grieving wife and how to rebuild sex and intimacy from the ground up.

Couples will try to go back to having sex the way they always have had sex [prior to betrayal]. And I think they have to understand that they’re creating something completely new – just like their marriage. -Lyschel Burket

Guest: Lyschel Burket, APSATS-c

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0:00.0

Hey friend, this is Julie, and before you jump into this week's episode of Job with Julie,

0:07.6

I want to remind you that our online book studies are launching next month.

0:13.0

We still have some space available in our groups that are going through the new edition

0:17.1

of finding the hero and your husband.

0:19.1

You'll actually get a sneak peek at the manuscript before

0:21.7

this book comes out in the fall. And we have groups from men, women, and couples going through

0:26.8

rethinking sexuality. My favorite part of these online studies is joining your group at the end of your

0:32.5

study and getting to answer your questions and hear your thoughts. So don't miss this opportunity

0:37.3

to connect with

0:38.1

others this summer and dive deeper into God's love for you and why he cares about your sexuality.

0:44.4

Get connected today at Authenticanimacy.com.

0:52.4

Hey friend, thanks for coming back for another episode of Java with Julie.

0:56.8

I'm Julie Slattery, and this listener-supported podcast is an outreach of authentic intimacy,

1:02.2

a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality.

1:06.1

Well, one of the biggest areas where sexuality really needs to be reclaimed is in marriages of Christian

1:12.7

men and women where one of them has been unfaithful. My guest today has been there. She's worked

1:18.4

really hard to reclaim sexuality in her own marriage, and she has now dedicated her life

1:23.6

work to helping other women do that same thing. Her name is LaShelle Burkette.

1:28.3

LaShelle is the founder of Hope Redefined, a ministry that walks beside women who are facing

1:33.4

sexual betrayal in their close relationships or marriages. And she's going to tell us more about

1:38.6

Hope Redefined and how you can connect with them in just a moment.

1:42.3

Michelle's also going to share from her own story and from her experience in helping other

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