362 SelfWork: How to Recognize Inattentive ADHD: A Conversation with IADHD Author Cynthia Hammer
The SelfWork Podcast
Margaret Robinson Rutherford PhD
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 6 October 2023
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
October is ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) Awareness Month. SelfWork has never focused on this very difficult disorder, often affecting children who are what's now called "neurodivergent" but in the past, have been unjustly stigmatized as "lazy, stupid, or crazy" which was finally described in 2006 for the actual processing difference it is in the now classic book, You Mean I'm Not Lazy, Stupid, or Crazy?.
But ADHD contains hyperactivity as a symptom of the disorder; what used to be called ADD, or simple attention deficit disorder, is now labeled as inattentive ADHD. And these kids (and adults) often slip through the cracks of adult recognition, because they're seen more as daydreamers, or unmotivated, not causing the classroom behavioral problems that hyperactive kids can seem to create. But they still can truly struggle and... go unseen.
Cynthia Hammer has a new book, Living with Inattentive ADHD: Climbing the Circular Staircase of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, where she offers her own hard-earned wisdom of living with IADHD. I found the book at times chilling because of the dangers she could put herself in, poignant as she lives through tremendous sorrow of the accidental death of her first child, and hopeful, as - at almost age 80 - she shares what she's learned about surviving and thriving.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | This is Selfwork, and I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford. |
| 0:14.1 | At Selfwork, we'll discuss psychological and emotional issues common in today's world |
| 0:19.0 | and what to do about them. |
| 0:20.4 | I'm Dr. Margaret, and Selfwork is a podcast dedicated to you taking just a few minutes today |
| 0:26.2 | for your own Selfwork. |
| 0:29.8 | Hello, and welcome to Selfwork. |
| 0:31.4 | I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford. |
| 0:33.0 | I'm a clinical psychologist out of fave Arkansas, and I started Selfwork almost seven |
| 0:38.5 | years ago. |
| 0:39.5 | In fact, next week, we're going to have a big anniversary celebration. |
| 0:43.6 | We started it seven years ago in order to extend the walls of my practice to those of |
| 0:47.7 | you. |
| 0:48.7 | You might already be very interested in this kind of thing. |
| 0:51.4 | Maybe you're in therapy to those of you who are looking for some answers because you've |
| 0:55.1 | got struggles. |
| 0:56.1 | You're stuck in. |
| 0:57.5 | But there's also a third group of you to those of you who might be very skeptical |
| 1:03.3 | about mental health treatment, about therapy in general, but you're curious enough or |
| 1:07.5 | sadly unhappy enough to give Selfwork a listen. |
| 1:11.7 | So welcome. |
| 1:13.5 | This October is actually designated for many different months as far as awareness, but |
| 1:20.5 | it's ADHD awareness month. |
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