When couples come into my office and I say I want you to be aware of your non-verbals

I want you to be aware of the signal you're sending in that 90% of communication

that's subconscious.

You know, a lot of people will tell me, well,

I don't have any control over that.

You know, my tone of voice is what it is, my face does what it does,

this is just me, you know, take it or leave it.

And it's sort of a cop out.

It's people who either don't believe

they can take charge of themselves,

or you know, they just don't want to do the work

that it takes to retrain those automatic habits.

Welcome to the multi-ammery podcast. I'm Jace.

I'm Emily. And I'm Dedicher.

We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past.

So whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

we see you and we're here for you.

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On this episode of the Multiannary Podcast, we're talking with therapist John Howard about his new book More than Words.

John Howard is an internationally recognized therapist, wellness expert, and educator who uses the latest science to help couples have stronger relationships.

He is the host of the John Howard Show, a wellness podcast, and the creator of the Ready Set Love series of online programs for couples.

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