#36: What Kind of Love Are You Making?
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 2 August 2021
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
If there is one place in the Bible that gives women permission to have fun, to explore and to enjoy sexual pleasure, it’s the poetic Song of Solomon. In this episode, Juli Slattery and Linda Dillow have a candid conversation about why many married women dread sex, yet how the Song of Solomon gives women freedom and permission to say no to sex, to initiate sex, to enjoy sex and to feel sexy. Grab your Java and join us!
Guests: Linda Dillow and Elena Thomason
Show Notes:
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| 0:00.0 | Well, hey friend, this is Julie and you are listening to Java with Julie. This is a listener-supported |
| 0:06.0 | podcast that's an outreach of authentic intimacy and ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design |
| 0:11.7 | for sexuality. One of the ways that God began to reclaim sexuality in my life was through |
| 0:17.2 | meeting Linda Dillo. Not only was Linda a mentor to me, |
| 0:20.9 | but she challenged me to read the book of Song of Solomon |
| 0:23.7 | and for the first time asked God to really help me understand |
| 0:27.0 | what he was saying through all that poetic language. |
| 0:30.7 | Well, I took that challenge, |
| 0:32.2 | and God began to do some amazing things in my heart and in my marriage. |
| 0:36.5 | And that was also the beginning of authentic intimacy. |
| 0:39.7 | Together, Linda and I co-wrote the Bible study Passion Pursuit, which is, yes, a Bible |
| 0:44.8 | study about sex. |
| 0:46.2 | In our conversation today, Linda and I talked through some of the key takeaways we |
| 0:50.5 | learned from the song of Solomon, like the fact that God designed sex to be both erotic |
| 0:55.8 | and holy, and that sexual pleasure isn't just for husbands. God intends for women to enjoy |
| 1:01.9 | and initiate sex too. And also, no matter where you find yourself now, God can bring healing |
| 1:08.1 | and pleasure to sexual intimacy with your husband. |
| 1:11.9 | It turns out that women have really swallowed a lot of lies over the years about our sexuality. |
| 1:17.1 | Are you ready to take the Passion Pursuit Challenge? |
| 1:20.0 | Our fall online book studies start next month. |
| 1:23.1 | You can sign up today and go through Passion Pursuit with a trained leader and a group of like-minded women who want to reclaim sexuality in their marriages. We also have groups going through sex |
| 1:33.2 | in the single girl, rethinking sexuality, finding the hero in your husband, and grace-based recovery. |
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