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The Suzanne Venker Show

36. How to Deconstruct an Entire Belief System

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9650 Ratings

🗓️ 15 March 2020

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

When I was young and would say something to my mother about not being able to do what the other kids are doing, or just point out the differences between them and me, she would say to me, “Who wants to be like everyone else? How boring!”

It must have stuck with me because I’ve spent a lifetime thinking and behaving differently from most people I know. Or maybe it’s just my personality. Either which way, as difficult as can be to go against the grain, particularly when we’re young, for me it has paid off spectacularly.

This is especially true when you live in a culture that lies. If we happened to live in an era in which the culture fostered truths that emboldened individuals and families to be strong, life would be easier.

But we don’t. That means most people will need to deconstruct an entire belief system in order to create lives that work.

Join Andre Paradis of https://www.projectequinox.net/ and me as we empower you to live according to what you want, rather than the life others want you to want. It’s entirely possible with the right encouragement.

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0:52.6

Welcome back to the Suzanne Venker Show, where men and women are equal in value, but wildly different by nature.

0:59.6

When I was young and would say something to my mother about not being able to do what the other kids are doing,

1:04.6

she would say to me, who wants to be like everyone else? How boring.

1:09.7

It must have stuck with me because I spent a lifetime thinking

1:12.5

and behaving differently from most people I know. Or maybe it's just my personality. Either which way,

1:18.5

as difficult as it can be, to go against the grain, for me it has paid off spectacularly.

1:24.6

Today, Andre and I are going to talk about living according to what you want as opposed to the life others want you to want.

1:32.7

But before we get to that, I have a few announcements I wanted to say about the podcast.

1:38.3

And then let's see, this month I have pretty much two guests coming up.

1:42.7

So I've been doing, as you know, Andre, I have Andre

1:46.2

with me, and he is here, by the way. Hi, Andrea, say hi. Good morning. I have Andre with me every week,

1:52.3

and then I've been doing guests once a month. Last month was Rolo Tomasi, and next, this month,

2:00.4

I'm interviewing someone here locally in St. Louis,

2:04.8

so she's going to be in-house, which is kind of fun, a psychologist. And then I'm going to have

2:10.0

a special guest after that, my virtual assistant, Kelsey, who lives in Florida, and she will be in

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