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The Suzanne Venker Show

35. What Sex Looks Like Once the Kids Come Along

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9650 Ratings

🗓️ 9 March 2020

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

So I posted a meme recently that said, “Remember the sex you had before the babies came?” and received over 100 comments that run the gamut. Here are just a few:

“My general observation is that sex after babies is less. A lot less. For women it becomes more of a ‘have to do’ than an ‘I get to do.'”

“I have a 7 1/2 year old daughter who is amazing at being birth control. Lol. Won’t sleep without her mother.”

“The same after babies if you know how to manage your kids. Make ’em go to bed early and you can have 2 hours of fun every night.”

“Teenagers and all our bedrooms are too close together. We are looking for another house!”

“Yes, but the the one after they go away for college is SO MUCH BETTER!”

And my personal fav…”Yes! 9 times in one night. It was glorious. 3 kids later and we joke about having sex 2012 style. Still do it frequently but wow is it different. When you have to hurry up because a baby is crying, etc. I get why so many women lose interest after kids.”

Join Andre Pardis of https://www.projectequinox.net/  and me to discuss sex after the kids come along and what parents can do to keep their sex life strong in each stage of parenthood.

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0:41.5

Show.com. Welcome back to the Suzanne Venker Show, where men and women are equal in value, but wildly different by nature.

0:59.7

As always, I'm here with Andre Parody of Project Equinox, and today we're going to discuss sex.

1:09.5

Specifically, sex after the kids come along and what that really looks like

1:15.0

I've wanted to talk about this for so long Andre I have to say

1:21.1

most people don't want to talk about I know I know and I love to talk about the things that

1:26.1

nobody wants to talk about that's sort of of my schick. So, there you go. Yeah. I'm going to start by, but before we get into that,

1:33.4

before we get into sex, I've got to read something regarding last week's podcast, which was about the,

1:41.4

the saint with balls issue. Yeah. Well, let me back up and say, you know, the g with balls issue.

1:44.4

Yes.

1:45.8

Well, let me back up and say, you know,

1:47.5

the gist of that podcast last week was talking about

1:50.7

how ultimately what women are looking for is a man who is very strong,

1:55.4

who can lead, but who's also kind and good.

1:59.0

And it's just that sort of concept of the saint with balls that really they're looking

2:04.1

for.

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