Hey everybody, don't be shy.

Click off your shoes and step into the Love Live podcast with me, your host, Stephen

Hussey.

Hello, hello and welcome, welcome one and all.

I have a lovely treat for you today because I am going to hand the floor over to my

dear brother Matthew Hussey because we've got some things to say about toxic relationships.

I feel we've all become very familiar with the term gaslighting over the last decade or

so I feel like it's one of those terms that's surged in popularity.

I feel like no one used to say in the 90s and now everyone talks about gaslighting and

it's the phenomenon of feeling like you're being made to feel like the crazy one even

if it's your partner who's performing the toxic behavior or acting in a particularly unkind,

unpleasant way and you're the one who's made to feel insecure and you're just completely

crazy.

What are you talking about or maybe your partner with holds affection periodically and suddenly

goes cold and then when that makes you cling onto them tighter, they go, God, you're so

clingy.

What's wrong with you?

You know, there's all these forms of you suddenly feel like what's happening to me?

How am I the one?

I feel like I've just behaving normally but now that I'm made to feel like I'm completely

crazy and off the rails and this happens so much that it's very easy to get confused

and you can be confused whether this is the person you're meant to be with and you've

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