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Well with Arielle Lorre

354: Facing Indecision in Relationships, How to Figure Out If It’s Right For You & Why You're Choosing What You're Not Changing with Dr. Sara Kuburic @millennial.therapist

Well with Arielle Lorre

Dear Media, Arielle Lorre

Alternative Health, Fashion & Beauty, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Arts, Personal Journals

4.84K Ratings

🗓️ 23 October 2024

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Dr. Sara Kuburic aka the millennial therapist is an existential psychotherapist, co-founder of The Phenomenological Society, speaker, essayist, former USA Today columnist, consultant, and author of “It’s On Me”. She joins the show to discuss self loss and what to do when your life doesn’t feel like your own anymore. We very candidly discuss our own moments of realizing we were unfulfilled, divorce, guilt and shame around breakups, why people stay in unhappy relationships and small steps to build a life you love. We also talk indecision in relationships, how to figure out whether your relationship is right for you, situationships, common pitfalls in dating and more. Despite the subject matter this is a light easy listen with lots of laughs!

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a dear media production.

0:04.0

In a world of ever-changing wellness trends and information, what does it mean to truly be well?

0:12.0

I'm Arial Lori and I'm going to explore this with you. I am

0:16.4

bringing you candid conversations that will equip you with everything you need to

0:20.3

live your best life and look good doing it. Think of Well as your

0:23.7

go-to resource for all of the latest in wellness and me as your internet besty.

0:28.2

Well, let's get into it. Welcome! Thank you so much for having me.

0:34.0

Thank you for being here.

0:35.0

There's a lot that I want to talk to you about, but I think the best place to start is with

0:41.7

this concept of self- which is something that you

0:45.5

explored in your last book and I heard you on another show talking about your own

0:51.2

experience in your life

0:53.0

where you were like in grad school,

0:54.3

you were in the relationship,

0:55.8

you kind of had all the things going,

0:58.2

and you were never less happy in your life and that really resonated with me because I've been in that place too.

1:07.3

So why don't we start there?

1:08.9

Yeah, so you know people talk about midlife crisis, I feel like I felt it in my 20s.

1:15.0

And yeah, I was in grad school and I was very happy, theoretically, that I got in, or I thought I was happy that I got in.

1:22.0

I got married very young thought I was happy that I got in I got married very young and I was like

1:24.4

this girl she found the one so early on the plebs don't know I'm living that sweet life. I was involved with the community. I

1:35.0

felt like I was always praised for what I did and what I look like and all these

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