It was very much tied to no, don't move in together before you get married.

It was just ultimately tied to don't have sex before you get married.

So don't date before you get married?

How do you ever find someone to get married too if you don't date then. Oh Emily I'm glad you asked.

Well in my day in the Christian Church it was very much about kissing

dating goodbye as it were. Oh yeah I forgot about that book. I was about to yeah label that book a certain

adjective but I didn't. Okay well it's okay we probably all know what that adjective might be.

We can all imagine it together in our minds.

No, it was much more a model that was supposed to be about going back to the old timey model of like

courtship, you know? It was real cool and didn't mess up anybody at all.

It was a good happy ending to the story.

Dedaker's lying everyone very much.

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace.

I'm Emily. And I'm deadaker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships

not maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're monogamous,

polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you, and we're here for you. I know I did.

forcing me to for myself to fit.

On this episode. To without de-escalating a relationship. So often when a couple chooses not to live together anymore or D-Nest, as we're calling it,

it's assumed that they're also breaking up.

However, the decision to stay together but still live apart

is becoming more prevalent in both monogamy and in non-monogamy in the US and Europe,

especially this is becoming more and more common. So today we're

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