There is things like existential scarcity.

So this idea of sometimes this is called a midlife crisis,

but really essentially gets down to realizing that your life is just too short to waste on stuff that isn't good to the best of your ability.

And having that sense of scarcity around your time

and scarcity around just your life, that can be really powerful can really revolutionize a lot of what you choose

to do with your time.

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast.

I'm Jace.

I'm Emily and I'm Dedic we believe in looking to the future of

relationships not maintaining the status quo of the past so whether you're

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On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast we're talking about abundance and

scarcity. We've probably all heard platitudes about having an abundance mindset, which a lot of people love,

but can also feel disingenuous to others. Today, we're going to be exploring the science behind

feelings of scarcity or abundance,

how it actually affects our behavior when it comes to dating and relationships,

and we'll also be looking at some ways to maybe turn the concept of the abundance mindset and

scarcity mindset on its head and see if we may be able to use both to our advantage.

Yeah, I just have to start out by giving the disclaimer that even saying the words out loud,

abundance mindset or scarcity mindset does make me throw up a tiny bit just right in the back of my mouth just subtly just a tiny bit

Can you talk about that a bit about your throw up? No, no just just your aversion to that kind of that phrase, those two phrases.

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