35. What Happens When A Parent Has Unhealed Trauma?

Dear Little Me

Dawn Chitty

Childhood Trauma, Emotional Abuse, Narcissistic Mother, Healing, Ptsd, Trauma, Personal Journals, Health & Fitness, Depression, Anxiety, Mental Health, Society & Culture, Women Podcast, Relationships, Self Esteem, Self Help, Self Improvement

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🗓️ 5 July 2021

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

Intergenerational trauma. CPTSD.

A parent with unhealed trauma directly influences the experience for their child. The way a parent with unhealed trauma raises their child affects the child, how that child raises their child and so on down the line. It is an intergenerational transmission of wounding. An inheritance of hurt. Dr Tanner Wallace is a professional guide facilitator, mentor and coach in childhood trauma recovery. Tanner has a PhD in education and is trained through the IFS Internal Family Systems Institute. Tanner also has personal experience as a human with complex trauma or CPTSD. In this episode Tanner walks us through the effect that a parent with unhealed trauma has on their kids.

You can find Dr. Tanner Wallace on https://www.heldbytanner.com/2023yearofhealing and her podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/held-by-tanner/id1515546096

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0:00.0	Oftentimes it takes a rock bottom. It takes a really jarring event. It takes hearing a podcast
0:05.9	like this. Something that plants a seed, something's going on here that isn't right. Something goes on
0:14.1	in my mind that doesn't make sense to me. Something feels chaotic in a way that is causing a lot of
0:21.2	suffering. Welcome to how my parents raised me. I'm Dawn Chitty. When we are born, we arrive here
0:34.3	as pure and perfect souls. And the direction our life takes from that moment is deeply connected
0:41.9	to what our parents bring to our lives. And what our parents bring to our lives is deeply connected
0:48.8	to what their parents brought to their lives. And that's the cycle of families. I have always
0:56.0	craved connection with real and raw stories to understand what makes you you. What makes you the
1:04.7	absolutely unique human that you are. Stories are medicine for the soul. They can connect us
1:13.2	and they can change the world. And so in this podcast, I'm listening to beautiful souls
1:19.6	sharing their story. What happened to them? How they got through and how they have healed and
1:26.1	thrived despite everything to arrive right here in this moment. Content warning, if you are
1:34.7	triggered by the themes of this podcast, please seek a help line in your city.
1:44.4	Hey, my beautiful friends. A parent with unhealed trauma directly influences the experience
1:50.9	for their child. The way a parent with unhealed trauma raises their child affects the child
1:57.6	and how that child raises their child and so on down the line. It's an intergenerational
2:04.4	transmission of wounding and inheritance of hurt. Dr. Tanner Wallace is a professional guide
2:11.2	facilitator, mentor and coach in childhood trauma recovery. Tanner has a PhD in education
2:19.2	and is trained through the internal family systems institute. Tanner also has personal experience
2:26.0	as a human with complex trauma, also known as CPTSD. In this quick chat episode,
2:33.7	Tanner walks us through the effect that a parent with unhealed trauma has on their child.
2:39.7	So I talk about this idea of an inheritance of hurt. So if we are raised by humans that have unhealed
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