348 | You Have The Weight
Citizen Podcast
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4.9 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 4 February 2026
⏱️ 59 minutes
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Dan is back with another solo episode, taking excerpts from his substack, https://danhollaway.substack.com/
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| 0:00.0 | Let's go. |
| 0:07.0 | Welcome to Citizen. We're going to talk about some things today, some stuff that's kind of been a culmination, I guess, of some of the conversations we've been having |
| 0:21.4 | recently about logic and masculinity and purpose and politics and all that stuff that kind |
| 0:26.8 | of weaves itself together. |
| 0:29.7 | And this is a topic that, you know, I've personally been talking about for a very long time. |
| 0:37.3 | There's a lot of people in this space that have a lot of opinions about, you know I've personally been talking about for a very long time there's a lot of people in this space that have a lot of opinions about |
| 0:41.3 | what a man's duty is and all this stuff um yeah I think I think that there's quite a bit of confusion about it and there's some bad analogies used and some pretty bad advice |
| 0:56.4 | given as well so the title here is you have the weight and it is a commonly used phrase in buds |
| 1:05.8 | that I've heard for a lot of my seal friends and you hear it you know probably more in media than you do in real life, I would |
| 1:14.9 | imagine. |
| 1:16.1 | I'm not entirely sure about that because I never been to buds. |
| 1:18.4 | I wasn't in the Navy. |
| 1:19.1 | I like women. |
| 1:20.4 | No offense, guys. |
| 1:22.3 | To the gay people, I mean. |
| 1:23.7 | But, yeah, it's a phrase that you probably probably heard before and that you have the weight. |
| 1:29.9 | And it means that I have put the log on your shoulder and you're now carrying the weight. |
| 1:38.7 | And there's a lot of implications there. |
| 1:40.2 | You're responsible now for carrying it. |
| 1:42.7 | Also, not just that you're responsible but that i |
| 1:45.5 | trust you to do it right there's a lot conferred with that action and it's something that's really |
| 1:51.1 | important for the development of a young man uh into manhood now we've talked a lot about over the |
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