341: STOP THOSE OLD, COMFORTABLE AND INEFFECTIVE PATTERNS

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 13 September 2016

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

"Marriage doesn’t have the power to bind-only the actions of two people can do that. Forever and happy endings aren’t a given." —Leah Mercer You can make changes to your marriage no matter how long you've been married. For us it was at the 11 year make that we got radical when we started and completed the 60 Days of Sex Challenge. What you'll began to realize is that it’s never too late to stop the ineffective patters and behaviors. Here's the thing though... ...you'll need to made a decision to get back to the basics in different areas of your marriage. Because if you don't: Life will get in the way and you fall into your old, comfortable and ineffective patterns. You don’t know how to do what you think you need to do so you don’t do it. Fear of the unknown will keep you from doing anything. Living in this place you experience an increased level of frustration for you and your spouse. You know things need to change. You know that you need to do something different. So let's do it! In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about why it’s important to stop those old, comfortable and ineffective patterns and instead take action in order to create transformation in your marriage. EPISODE SPONSOR | He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path He Zigs She Zags gives you the tools that you need to have the communication you desire. This is not just about looking into each other’s eyes and sharing your deepest feelings, this is about giving the two of you a map to better communication. Get He Zigs, She Zags today! Schedule a Strategic Coaching Session with Alisa 7 Days of Sex Challenge Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is the One Extraordinary Marriage Show, where being busy is overdone.
0:05.4	Romantic is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:10.8	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your your co-host along with my beautiful wife
0:14.0	Alisa from coast to coast and around the world. Thank you for joining us. It's time to
0:18.6	talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858-765663. That's 858-876-5663.
0:30.7	In today's show, we talk about why it's important to stop those old comfortable and ineffective
0:36.5	patterns and instead take action in order to create transformation in your marriage.
0:42.9	And I want you to think about this quote from Leah Mercer,
0:45.6	who wrote in her book, who we were before.
0:48.4	She said, marriage doesn't have the power to bind.
0:52.3	Only the actions of two people can do that.
0:55.4	Forever and happy endings aren't a given.
0:59.2	And that's what happens when you fall into those patterns
1:01.5	of comfortable and ineffective behaviors.
1:04.2	That's what we're going to be pulling apart in today's show.
1:06.6	But before we get into that, we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug.
1:10.9	And the hug is an opportunity for you to share how what you've taken
1:14.6	from one extraordinary marriage has impacted your marriage and created transformation
1:18.5	and it's a great way for you to hear from others just like you and see what's going on in their lives
1:24.0	and this week's hug is brought to you by one extraordinary marriages, He Ziggs, She Zags,
1:28.2	get your communication on the same path and you can check it out at hezig-shezags.com.
1:33.0	Do you remember how you felt when you first met your partner, how close you were like you were soulmates,
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