Hey everyone, Benkuba Radio, episode number 340, Shorp Shart to the Point Two Day.

So I want to talk about living in chaos.

So what does that mean?

That doesn't mean you get up in the morning and you just think, oh my God, what is happening and your life is in like truly like a tornado. It's just mad. What I mean is this kind of mild anxiety bubbling feeling of chaos and the reason why I bring

this up is I see a huge amount of people that ask for my advice.

And what often I end up doing in a coaching

or advice-giving environment is put someone in a place where they can feel they can

have their own sense of clarity on a situation. So if you're focusing on the wrong things, there's a lot of negative stuff happening, you're

frustrated with things, there's a little bit of anger or agitation or aggression towards

something in you, then you're really going to struggle to stand

back and be objective about what is happening in your life.

So so much of my coaching and my speaking is saying to the person right, let's take this issue,

let's put it in a box for a second and we'll kind of classify that as this for now.

And let's put this little thing in a box and move over here.

Now with those two things out of the way, let's stand back and look at everything else.

Let's do a blue sky survey on life or the problem or the situation

you're trying to see clarity on. And when we do that, people are usually very good at solving their own problems.

It's like if you go to a coach you'll be amazed at how a really good coach will

often operate. They won't give you kind of this magic

blueprint that you almost expect like this pathway to follow. Most coaches

will say right let's ignore that for a second let's ignore this

let's focus on this let's stand back look at that what about this and what about that and

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