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Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee

#34 Why Being Popular Isn’t All It’s Cracked Up To Be with Professor Mitch Prinstein

Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee

Dr Rangan Chatterjee

Health & Fitness, Medicine, Alternative Health, Mental Health

4.810.9K Ratings

🗓️ 31 October 2018

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

“We are biologically programmed to care what others think of us”

Who doesn't want to be more popular? Leading psychologist, Professor Mitch Prinstein explains why perhaps we should be careful what we wish for… More than childhood intelligence, family background, or prior psychological issues, research indicates that it’s how popular we were in our early years that predicts how successful and how happy we grow up to be. But it’s not always the conventionally popular people who fare the best, for the simple reason that there is more than one type of popularity: the first based on status and the second based on likeability. Although we are hardwired to crave status, research indicates that this type of popularity hurts us more than we realise. In fact, research shows that people who were popular in high school were more likely to suffer from addictions, problems in relationships and had a higher risk of depression, anxiety and loneliness in later life.

We discuss how popularity taps into our basic need to survive and examine the surprising links to our health and lifespan, offering important insights for all of us about how we can cultivate the right kind of popularity. This conversation is more relevant today than ever before. In a world that pushes us to pursue power, and click our way to online status, it has become too easy to be lured towards a type of popularity that can harm us, and our children. This is a truly eye-opening conversation – I hope you enjoy it! My upcoming book 'The Stress Solution' covers these topics in detail. You can pre-order it on Amazon.

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While likability leads to positive outcomes decades later, the people who are the coolest,

0:06.0

most popular folks in high school, research shows that when they grow up, they're more

0:11.1

likely to suffer from addictions. They have difficulties in their professional and personal

0:16.3

relationships, and they're at much higher risk for anxiety, depression and loneliness.

0:21.7

Hi, my name is Dr. Rungan Chatterjee, medical doctor, author of the Four Pill of Plan and

0:28.4

television presenter. I believe that all of us have the ability to feel better than we

0:33.4

currently do, but getting healthy has become far too complicated. With this podcast, I aim

0:39.6

to simplify it. I'm going to be having conversations with some of the most interesting and exciting

0:44.8

people both within, as well as outside the health space, to hopefully inspire you, as well

0:50.4

as empower you with simple tips that you can put into practice immediately to transform

0:55.4

the way that you feel. I believe that when we are healthier, we are happier because when

1:00.5

we feel better, we live more.

1:05.6

Hello and welcome to another episode of my Feel Better, Live More podcast. My name is

1:11.4

Rungan Chatterjee, and I am your host. Today's guest is the leading psychologist, Professor

1:17.6

Mitch Prinstein. Mitch is an expert on popularity and has written a fabulous book called the Popularity

1:24.1

Illusion, which I first came across a few months ago when I was locked away researching material

1:29.9

for my brand new book, The Stress Solution. I was absolutely fascinated with Mitch's work,

1:35.0

and I'm looking forward to sharing it with you today.

1:38.8

Who doesn't want to be more popular? Well, perhaps we should be careful what we wish for.

1:44.0

More than childhood intelligence, family background, or prior psychological issues, research

1:49.3

indicates that it's how popular we were in our early years, that predicts how successful

1:54.0

and how happy we grow up to be. But it's not always the conventionally popular people

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