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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

339: SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.61.7K Ratings

🗓️ 30 August 2016

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

"Never judge someone on their past because they are no longer in that stage of life." —Alisa DiLorenzo Sex before marriage can be a roadblock to deep sexual intimacy. If you had sex before marriage you may have feelings of guilt, shame, and resentment. On the other side your spouse may have had sex before marriage with other partners and now you question the level of their commitment, you compare yourself to theses previous partners or you grew up knowing you should not have had sex together, but you did. We get it. We’ve been there. We both had sex before marriage with other partners and each other. Because we had sex before marriage it impacted our relationship for many years. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about breaking free from the guilt and shame you may carry because you had sex before marriage. EPISODE SPONSOR | He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path He Zigs She Zags gives you the tools that you need to have the communication you desire. This is not just about looking into each other’s eyes and sharing your deepest feelings, this is about giving the two of you a map to better communication. Get He Zigs, She Zags today! Schedule a Strategic Coaching Session with Alisa 4 Cool Statistics About Abstinence in the USA 319 – ESP (Extrasensory Perception) The Bondage Breaker Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show, where being busy is overdone,

0:05.6

romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

0:10.8

I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host along with my beautiful wife

0:14.0

Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to

0:19.0

talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858-765-663.

0:25.0

That's 858-76-5-663.

0:30.0

In today's show we talk about breaking free from the guilt and shame you may carry because you had sex before marriage.

0:37.0

And I want all of you to think about this quote that I found this week.

0:40.0

It said never judge someone on their past because they are no longer in that

0:45.3

stage of life and that's really what we're going to be digging into in the show because so often

0:50.3

it is so easy to look at something that somebody did in the past and to judge them and to be really harsh with them

0:55.2

Even yourself yourself or your spouse right because we spend so much time with ourselves so we're going to be talking about that quite extensively

1:06.9

But before we do that we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show with a hug And this is our opportunity to share what listeners just like you have experienced by getting plugged into one extraordinary marriage.

1:14.1

And this week's hug is brought to you by one extraordinary marriage's he zigs, she zags,

1:18.3

get your communication on the same path and you can check it out at hezigs, she zags.

1:22.2

com. Just want you to think about it for a moment. and you can check it out at he'sig she zags.com.

1:23.0

Just want you to think about it for a moment.

1:25.0

Do you remember how you felt when you first met your partner, how close you were,

1:29.0

like you could talk about anything,

1:30.0

and then life seemed to happen to the two of you.

1:33.0

Conversation that used to last for hours now last seconds,

1:36.5

if it even happens at all.

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