#339: How to Have Hard Conversations with (Facebook) Friends
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 30 November 2020
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
If you were standing in front of a crowd of 300 to speak, how carefully would you craft your words? Okay, so you’re actually at home alone with your smartphone, but on social media, you may as well be in front of a stadium full of people! Today Juli and her guest, Daniel Darling, talk about using our online conversations to do good, learning to “see” the person (loved by God) behind every post, and discerning when to post and when not to. Grab your Java and join us!
Guest: Daniel Darling
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- The Way Home Podcast with Daniel Darling
- How to Have Tough Conversations (blog by Juli)
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Well, hi, friend. |
| 0:02.8 | One of the things I like to do here on Java with Julie is to model how to have conversations |
| 0:08.2 | about difficult issues and how to have them in a way that points people to Jesus. |
| 0:13.0 | Well, these days, some of our most difficult conversations to navigate might actually be our online conversations. |
| 0:20.0 | Social media has become a main way for us to |
| 0:23.3 | express our views about politics, racial injustice, sexual ethics, and loving people for who they are. |
| 0:29.8 | Unfortunately, our engagement on social media can easily turn toxic. Is there someone in your |
| 0:35.5 | social media feed that just makes your blood pressure rise |
| 0:38.3 | every time you see them post? Or maybe you're the passionate one. You love using social media |
| 0:44.4 | to advocate for the causes that are meaningful to you. We often forget that what we say is |
| 0:50.3 | just as powerful in a tweet as it would be if we were standing in front of someone. |
| 0:54.9 | Online, just like in real life, there's a time to speak and a time to hold our tongues. |
| 0:59.8 | But how do we know which one we should do? |
| 1:02.3 | Well, I've asked that question before, and that's why I'm looking forward to sharing this |
| 1:06.0 | conversation with Dan Darling, who wrote the book called Away with Words. |
| 1:11.2 | Dan is an author, speaker, and pastor, and he wrote this book to help us apply biblical |
| 1:15.5 | wisdom to our engagement online. |
| 1:18.1 | Now, Dan isn't saying that we just give up social media altogether, but he's not ignoring |
| 1:22.8 | the fact that Christians don't always engage in social media well. |
| 1:26.9 | My conversation with Dan will help you think about your motives about why you're using |
| 1:31.7 | social media. |
| 1:32.9 | We'll talk about our tendency to react to headlines that confirm our beliefs before we |
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