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So I do think that is validating because we try to tell people you know rather than

trying to like build a

fortress and build a wall that protects your relationship from threats on the

outside, mortify it from the inside. Because that's actually where the threats come

from at the end of the day.

Yeah. And I love that it came from this study that didn't have any agenda of being a non-monogamous

or anything like that.

Like, you know, if we had just came to that conclusion, people would go,

yeah, well, of course they're going to

think that and I think that is really cool and validating but even looking at this

study which didn't have that viewpoint going in it's like yeah look it's right

there in the data.

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