What's happening people? Welcome back to the show. My guest today is Nicole Arba. She's a comedian and a YouTuber.

Nicole has been through her fair share of controversy. So what insights is she gained from a decade of public attention, haters, success and failure?

Today, expect to learn what Nicole discovered after 10 years of chronic pain, what Americans, Canadians and Brits can learn from each other,

why Canadian politeness has been weaponized, what the right are getting wrong, how to deal with criticism, Nicole's dating advice to her younger self and much more.

It's cool to see a different side of someone that's a comedian. I think this is one of the best ways to kind of sit them down and delve into what drives someone to be funny and to try and have a message and get it across and energize other people to get on board with it.

Nicole's a, she's an interesting girl. She's got a lot more going on than I think most people give a credit for and I'm really glad that I got to sit down and dig into a very different side of it than you see on her Instagram and on news articles posted by TMZ.

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