332: When Your Husband Isn't Attracted to You

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

Education, Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.7 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 31 March 2026

⏱️ 8 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever had that devastating feeling that the man you married seems more interested in everything else but you?

I remember when my own husband seemed more interested in watching TV reruns than spending time with me. I would cry myself to sleep at night because it was so discouraging.

At the time, I thought the problem must be how I looked. Maybe if I lost weight, looked younger, or tried harder, he'd want me again.

But after working with thousands of women for over 25 years, I discovered something surprising: a lack of attraction in marriage is never about appearance.

In this episode, I'm revealing three powerful shifts that completely reignited the spark in my own marriage and have helped thousands of women go from feeling rejected and lonely to being actively pursued and desired again.

You'll discover simple, counterintuitive changes that can take your relationship from burnt out and disconnected to the passionate, easy marriage you always wanted. Love is learnable. These secrets are real.
Get ready to feel desired and adored again.

Download the FREE Adored Wife Roadmap now and start transforming your relationship today! Click here: https://lauradoyle.co/4s12ONp

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0:00.0	Have you ever had that chilling moment when the man you married seems more interested in absolutely
0:05.0	anything but you, the TV remote, the dog, his job, the neighbor, anything but you.
0:10.9	That crushing disappointment is real and it stinks. And I'm going to show you how to turn it around fast.
0:18.1	Fair warning, this podcast is going to make you fall back in love with your husband.
0:23.0	Whether you're exhausted from carrying everything and just want him to step up and be a real
0:27.2	partner or you're lonely and aching to feel close and adored again, you're in exactly the right
0:32.9	place. I'm Laura Doyle, New York Times bestselling author and creator of the six intimacy skills.
0:38.5	For 25 years, I've had a front row seat, watching women go from burnt out and disconnected to
0:43.6	having the passionate, easy marriage they always wanted. Love is learnable. The secrets are real,
0:50.4	and this is where I teach them. So glad you're here. Today we're talking about what to do when your
0:56.2	husband is not attracted to you, why it's probably not what you think, and how to solve the real
1:01.9	problem. I still remember when John was more interested in watching TV reruns than he was in spending
1:08.7	time with me, me, even making love to me, he was just not interested.
1:16.2	I'd cry myself to sleep at night because it was so discouraging. And I know I'm not alone.
1:24.3	Women have shared similar stories with me for years. And this is a pain that so many of
1:29.0	us go through. So if you can relate right now, you're not alone. Here's what's easy to think
1:35.5	when you're in that pain. Either you're married to the wrong guy or something about you has changed.
1:42.0	Your weight, your age, your post-baby body, and you think, if I just look
1:47.3	better, he'd want me again. I thought the same thing. But how you look is just not the issue.
1:55.8	It wasn't for me. And after working with thousands of women, I can tell you it's never the real issue for them either.
2:03.3	Something else entirely was going on in my marriage.
2:06.6	And once I discovered what it was, getting those butt pads and bedroom eyes back was actually pretty easy,
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