Oh Lordy Lou, how the devil are you?

It is Stephen Hussie here host of the Love Life podcast featuring of course by

wonderful brother Mr Matthew Hussie. So today we are going to talk about some

very underappreciated words to say on a date because wouldn't you know it a

lot of us love to play it very very cool and we're dating and as a result we

kind of miss out a lot because we kind of end up not giving people the signal

that we want to give them we try very hard to put on a front and sort of be a

little too cool for school be too guarded with our feelings because we're

taught hey you got to play the game and all that crap. So let me hand over to my

brother Matthew Hussie now to set the record straight on this check it out.

We can go on a date and have a great chat with someone have a great connection

feel like oh wow this was fun we got on really well but that doesn't secure

the next date. Simply having good conversation on a date isn't necessarily

enough to create a second date or a third date because when we see someone

romantically there are two things that are really necessary one is the

connection that we often feel when we have great conversation with someone when

we feel like time just flew by and the other one is the sense that we actually

feel desired by that person and I really believe one of the things that people

do wrong in the early stages of dating is that they don't actually show any

desire for the other person they have great conversation they can talk and

talk oh my god three hours past and we're still talking but I still don't know

if you find me attractive on that level so how do you do this are you ready it's

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