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The Mark Groves Podcast

#327: Why Humans Fear Commitment

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.95K Ratings

🗓️ 23 November 2023

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I dive deep into the subject of commitment. Not just in the sense of committed romantic relationships—but the fear of commitment to ourselves and our truth, extrapolating it to every area of your life. Your fear to commit to a dream, to a possibility, to a relationship, to your purpose, to a goal—all of these are the same process. Understanding what lies at the base of our fears of commitment can allow us to become more committed people, more disciplined, and more discerning, and move forward and create things we never thought were possible but always desired.  Sentence starters I share in this episode: —When I love people, they… —When I love people, I… —When I let people love me, they… —When I let people love me, I…Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to another episode of the Mark Gross podcast.

0:06.5

Today I'm coming at you with a solo episode, and I'm going to dive deep into the subject of

0:12.2

commitment. Now, not just commitment in the sense of committed romantic relationships,

0:19.0

but actually the fear of commitment and not just the fear of commitment from other people,

0:25.5

like being in relationship with people who are afraid of commitment, but also us,

0:29.1

ourselves, and our fear of commitment.

0:31.2

Where this comes from, and we're going to focus on a story I'm going to share about my own life

0:36.4

that looks at how a fear of commitment

0:40.5

can pathologize, but also looking at taking this subject that we're going to explore and

0:47.5

extrapolating into every area of your life. Your fear to commit to a dream, to a possibility,

0:53.8

to a relationship, to your purpose, to a goal.

0:57.6

All of these are the exact same process, actually.

1:01.0

And that's why I think being able to understand what lives at the basis of our fears of commitment

1:06.4

can allow us to become more committed people, more disciplined, more discerning.

1:11.8

It can allow us to move forward and create things we never thought were possible, but always desired.

1:18.8

So if there's any part of you that sabotages, that chooses people who are afraid of commitment,

1:26.1

find yourself keeping, that you keep being

1:28.2

gravitated towards that, that you yourself are running from people would like to have a relationship

1:33.4

with or you just can't label why you can't be with them.

1:38.3

I want to get into that.

1:40.4

Because I think if we look at this from a psychological level, yes, there's a fear that lives

1:47.2

at the basis of not being able to commit to things. But if we look at this from a spiritual

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