324: THE KEY TO YOUR HAPPINESS

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 17 May 2016

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

"Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present." —Jim Rohn Have you ever said: My husband doesn’t make me happy anymore My wife doesn’t make me happy anymore I’m not happy in marriage This isn’t making me happy Don’t I deserve to be happy Where is my happiness Why can’t I be happy There is an epidemic... An epidemic of people who aren’t happy in their life, with their job and in their marriages. You have an expectation that your spouse and your marriage are supposed to make you happy all of the time. In our comparison happy culture (hello social media) you are constantly bombarded by images of people who you perceive as better, prettier, happier and who have more. What you see is their good parts version -- compared to -- your everyday reality and the two are not matching up. This quest for to reach a state of happiness is driving a wedge in your marriage. The expectation that your spouse is going to make you happy all the time, that your marriage is always going to be good, is unrealistic. You are dealing with another human being who is dealing with their own stuff. Besides... happiness is a feeling and feelings are fleeting. You can be happy because it’s a sunny day. You can be happy because your spouse left you a note. You can be happy because the kids didn’t fight (that much) today. In each of these situations happiness is dependent on another person, their actions or outside circumstances. What happens when they don’t do those things... when it’s rainy, what do you do? The days that you don’t get a note from your spouse, what do you do? The days that the kids fight, what do you do? In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about the keys to unlocking happiness in you so it flows throughout your marriage. EPISODE SPONSOR | I Love You But I Don't Trust You Live Training TRUST. Five letters that have so much power in your marriage. When trust is present, it feels like you can handle everything. When trust has been broken, you find yourself questioning everything. If you have ever said or thought, "I love you but I don’t trust you" the JOIN US for the "I Love You But I Don't Trust You Live Training" on May 19th, 2016. Contract of Reconciliation It’s Not All Good or All Bad Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.
0:03.8	We're being busy as overdone.
0:05.2	Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of
0:09.0	wondering when you're going to get some.
0:10.4	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Lisa. From coast to coast and around
0:16.1	the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858-765663.
0:25.0	That's 858-876-5663.
0:30.0	In today's show, we talk about the key to unlocking happiness in you so it flows
0:36.6	throughout your marriage. And Abraham Lincoln had this to say about being happy. He
0:41.4	said most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.
0:46.0	There's so much truth in that statement and we're going to be digging into that a lot in today's show.
0:51.0	But before we get to that, we're going to get to the hug which is the way
0:54.4	that we start each and every one extraordinary marriage show the hug is your opportunity
0:58.8	to share what's been going on in your life how one extraordinary marriage has impacted the two of you and the transformation that you and your spouse are seeing.
1:07.0	And this week's hug is brought to you by one extraordinary marriages. I love you, but I don't trust you webinar. Trust those five little letters have
1:16.2	so much power in your marriage. When trust is present it feels like you can handle
1:20.8	everything. When trust has been broken you find yourself questioning everything.
1:26.1	If you have ever said I love you but I don't trust you, you need to join us for the I love you,
1:30.9	but I don't trust you four simple strategies to build
1:33.9	maintain and regain trust in your relationship webinar this Thursday May 19th.
1:39.0	During this free webinar you're going to learn a practical step-by-step process for
1:43.5	rebuilding trust after porn infidelity suspicion and harmful mistakes
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