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Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak

#323: Banking on Potential in Dating (dating advice for men and women)

Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak

Trina Leckie

Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 17 February 2024

⏱️ 8 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever banked on potential in a dating situation? Or maybe you're doing that right now and kind of having an internal battle over it. In this episode, I talk about what banking on potential is and why I advise against it... 

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You're listening to Break Up Boost, honest and logical advice with a sprinkle of bluntness.

0:37.0

Trina keeps it real. She'll help you navigate the craziness of the modern dating world.

0:41.0

Stop obsessing over your acts and finally close the door

0:44.0

on half-ass relationships this girl's got your back here's Trina hi guys the topic of this episode is banking on potential in dating

0:57.4

When you bank on potential in terms of dating that means that you are choosing to be with someone based on how you can see their life elevating in the future.

1:08.0

So in other words, their perceived future potential, and you're willing to invest your time and emotions

1:15.4

into this person with the hope that they will grow, develop, and excel in the

1:21.4

future. You do this because there is something or perhaps numerous

1:26.4

things about this person that you're not quite satisfied with at the current time.

1:31.4

Maybe it's their maturity level, maybe it's their

1:35.1

lack of ambition, maybe it's their career path, and most likely it has something to

1:41.0

do with where they're at financially.

1:44.1

So what happens is you basically create a story in your mind as to how you want things to be

1:50.4

and how you dream they could be. And then you fall in love with that fantasy.

1:56.0

But if you are in this type of position now,

2:00.0

it's really important to bring yourself back down to reality and realize,

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