322: IT’S TIME TO INITIATE

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 3 May 2016

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Knowing how to initiate sex in your marriage can be a very real challenge. You're not sure what to do or when you do if your spouse even realizes that you're initiating. On the other side of this is a frustrated who doesn't understand why you can’t or decide not to initiate. For them it’s similar to living in a constant state of rejection. Think about it. If you rarely initiate then it is always up to your spouse to make a move. If you're not interested, too tired, not in the mood, then they get shot down. They express desire to you and yet there is no similar expression of desire in return. NEW FLASH... This is NOT something that only happens to men or only women. Both men and women struggle when it comes to know how to initiate sex. When only one of you is initiating or when neither of you is initiating sex it’s time to take a look at what is going on between the two of you. If you can’t initiate it’s often because you don’t know how or what you have tried in the past hasn’t worked so you don’t know what to do. Maybe you got the message growing up that “good girls don’t do that” or “you shouldn’t be so bold”. Maybe you were told that you should always be pursued. Maybe you’re afraid that you are going to hear no or some other excuse for why you spouse doesn’t want to be with you. Maybe you just don’t know what to do. OR Maybe your spouse doesn’t know when you are initiating... Check out our Top 10 Ways To Initiate Sex With Your Spouse TONIGHT to get some ideas on how you can begin to initiate. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about why now is the time for you to share with your spouse on how you initiate in and outside the bedroom. EPISODE SPONSOR | FreshBooks FreshBooks is a super simple invoicing solution that lets you create and send professional looking invoices in seconds. It also makes managing your expenses, staying on top of who owes you what, and tracking your time the easiest part of your day. Try FreshBooks FREE for 30 days on us. Get your free trial today. Discover the Top 10 Ways To Initiate Sex With Your Spouse TONIGHT Ecotones Sound + Sleep Machine Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is the one extraordinary marriage show.
0:04.0	We're being busy is overdone. Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:10.0	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world,
0:17.0	thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858-876-663. That's 858-7-65663.
0:28.0	In today's show we talk about why now is a time for you to share with your spouse on how you initiate in and outside the bedroom.
0:38.0	An author John Maxwell had this to say about initiating.
0:41.0	He said everyone has the potential to become an
0:43.5	encourager. You don't have to be rich, you don't have to be a genius. You don't have to
0:48.7	have it altogether. All you have to do is care about people and initiate.
0:54.0	And that line right there about just you don't have to have it all together,
0:58.0	you just have to be able to care about people and initiate is really going to get at the heart of today's show.
1:02.0	But as we start each and every one
1:04.4	extraordinary marriage show, we start with a hug, and this week's hug is brought to you by
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