#321: People Pleasing? Ah, Hell No.
Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak
Trina Leckie
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🗓️ 2 February 2024
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
Are you a people pleaser? Or maybe you don't want to admit it. Maybe you're in denial. Maybe you comfort yourself by telling yourself you're not a people pleaser ... and instead, it's being a "great person." Whatever the case may be, I've got a lot to say on the topic and why you need to get off this path. You'll be MUCH better off, more confident, more at peace with yourself... not to mention, more appealing to quality people you may be interested in dating.
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| 0:51.8 | hey guys the topic of this episode is people pleasing? |
| 0:57.0 | Ah, hell no. |
| 0:59.0 | Some of you may not want to hear this, but being a people pleaser doesn't make you this great, fabulous, kind-hearted person. |
| 1:08.0 | It makes you a pushover. |
| 1:10.0 | The simplest way to put it is this. If you are a people pleaser, you lose yourself. You lose your personality. You lose your individuality. You lose your individuality, you lose your thoughts and opinions, you lose your voice, you |
| 1:29.3 | lose your self-esteem, you lose your confidence, you lose sight of your personal values, you lose out on |
| 1:38.1 | genuine connections, and you end up with a lot of regret. |
| 1:43.0 | After you realized you wasted so many years of your life, people pleasing that is. |
| 1:48.0 | If you have to dim or hide who you really are and put others needs ahead of your own, that's |
| 1:56.4 | not being nice, that's being a doormat, that's being weak. |
| 2:01.8 | If you're always going to great lengths to seek approval from others, that's exhausting, not to mention demeaning. If you succumb to peer pressure, well, that doesn't just mean you're being cooperative. |
| 2:16.0 | If you need to bend over backwards just to keep someone around, |
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