Delimaranse also thrives in the face of adversity.

And that adversity could be external.

Like there's some reason we can't be together

or they couldn't express their feelings for me

because I'm married or they're married or

or we speak different languages, something like that.

Or it could be an internal, like an entirely internal adversity like, oh I'm too shy or I'm just, you know, unable to speak to them

or I'm too nervous or something.

But it really thrives on that uncertainty, and so there tends to need to be some sort of reason why that

uncertainty lasts longer.

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm Dettiker. We believe in looking to the future of relationships

not maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're monogamous,

polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you, and we're here for you. I know I did.

forcing me to for myself to fit.

On this episode of the multi-amory podcast,

we are talking about both the lovely and the dangerous sides

of starting a new relationship.

Perhaps you could say we're looking at the light side and the dark side of the force.

On this day, may the fourth be with you.

Ah, yes.

There it is.

In addition to discussing new relationship energy or NRE, we're also going to look at its dangerous

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