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Simple Farmhouse Life

319. What I Don’t Stress About Anymore as a Mom of Nine + More Q&A

Simple Farmhouse Life

Lisa Bass

Home & Garden, Leisure

4.91.9K Ratings

🗓️ 9 December 2025

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

So much of motherhood and homemaking lies in learning to hold both the big-picture vision and the everyday realities with open hands.  In this episode, I’m sharing our current farmhouse building update, the excitement of turning my attention to interior design choices, and reflections on raising babies in two very different eras of motherhood.  I’m chatting through toxin anxiety, health decisions, and why I lean heavily on practicality and the 80/20 mindset.  I also dive into the tools and rhythms that make newborn life peaceful in our home— woven wraps, intuitive nursing, co-sleeping, and eventually transitioning little ones to independent sleep.  If you need reassurance, perspective, or just an honest chat about real-life motherhood from a mom of nine, join me for this Q&A! In this episode, we cover: - Starting with a current house update— a pause in building, window delays, linseed-oil–paint prep, and the excitement of finally moving into insulation and interior choices - It is time to re-orient my creative brain toward selecting paint colors, finishes, and a more collected, relaxed country decor style with the help of a designer friend - Reflections on becoming a mom across two very different eras—before smartphones, before constant internet advice—and how perspective shapes confidence - A listener question on toxin anxiety, lead concerns, EMFs, PUFAs, tick bites, and how I keep worry in check by leaning on experience and practicality - The balance between caring about health and letting go of what can’t be controlled—embracing the 80/20 mindset in food, lifestyle, and motherhood - Why woven wraps remain my most-used newborn tool, plus a simple overview my favorite carry, how wovens differ from stretch wraps, and the real-life practicality of babywearing in a busy home - An look at our experience with baby tongue ties— four kids with ties, five without, what releases have looked like, and why each experience was different - A deep dive into my newborn approach: no wake windows, no schedules, responsive nursing, intuitive rhythms, and embracing babywearing and co-sleeping to make the early months peaceful - What co-sleeping safely looks like for our family and how I transition babies to independent sleep around age one - Thoughts on organic vs. non-organic foods in real life, and why I don’t stress about every single grocery purchase - A peek into bedtime routines with multiple young kids— reading together, keeping the process simple, and why teaching little ones to fall asleep on their own is key for us - Handling night wakings, self-soothing, and why I don’t feel guilty about sleep training when the time comes View full show notes on the blog + watch this episode on YouTube. Thank you for supporting the sponsors that make this show possible! RESOURCES MENTIONED Follow my friend Anne at @Storied_Interiors for interior home design inspiration Check out the Farmhouse on Boone YouTube channel to catch up on our farmhouse building project A few of my recent home building updates: collecting architectural salvage pieces for our home, a recent walk-through of our build Join my FREE masterclass to learn my 4-step framework for making money on YouTube Master the rhythm of sourdough with confidence in my Simple Sourdough course Gain the sewing knowledge and skills every homemaker needs in my Simple Sewing series Turn your content creation dreams into a profitable business with my YouTube Success Academy Keep all my favorite sourdough recipes at your fingertips in my Daily Sourdough cookbook CONNECT Lisa Bass of Farmhouse on Boone | Blog | YouTube | Instagram | TikTok | Facebook | Pinterest Do you have a question you’d like me to answer on the podcast?  A guest you’d like me to interview?  Submit your questions and ideas here: bit.ly/SFLquestions.

Transcript

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0:00.0

But if something came up, we're out and about, I am not going to ruin the day by, you know,

0:05.9

not eating or saying we can't go and enjoy something fun because we would have to eat something

0:12.0

that would be not good for us. I think that the 80-20 rule very much applies. And just looking

0:18.2

at the amount of worry and anxiety and how much worse all of that is for health,

0:23.8

I think so many of these things you just can't control.

0:27.7

My name is Lisa, mother of nine and creator of the blog and YouTube channel Farmhouse

0:32.1

on Boone.

0:32.8

On this podcast, I like to talk about simplifying your life so you can live out your priorities.

0:37.2

I help you learn how to cook from scratch and decorate on a budget through this podcast and my courses simple sourdough in the simple sewing series. I also help people reach their goals from home through my business course, YouTube Success Academy. I will leave links to these resources in the show notes and description box below. Now let's get into the show.

0:59.6

Welcome back to the Simple Farmhouse Life podcast. Today I'm going to be taking more of your questions over on the Google sheet. I have Miss Miriam in my lap again because that's how podcasts are done

1:13.2

these days. So first, we'll start with a little bit of a house update. The house was on pause for

1:20.3

about two or three weeks. I knew we could probably run into a situation like that with our windows,

1:26.7

but because of when the electrician came and all of the

1:30.9

things that go on behind the walls took a little bit longer as well, there was really only about

1:37.1

a two or three week pause with the house build, which was great because I kind of thought it

1:43.6

would be a lot longer.

1:45.0

The second set of windows, we basically ordered our windows in two different parts for various

1:50.2

reasons. But the second set took quite a while because we decided to go with linseed oil paint.

1:55.4

And so there was some extra prep work when it came to that. But they are finally in. And now there's really nothing else that we

2:03.0

have to be waiting on to move full steam ahead on everything. So by the time this episode comes out,

2:08.7

we'll be in the middle of insulation, maybe even beginning on the drywall paneling, all that

2:14.6

kind of stuff. So I think that we'll be moving really quickly.

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