318: YOUR MARRIAGE NEEDS YOU TO GROW UP

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 5 April 2016

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

Unless you are a teenager it’s time to grow up in your marriage. When you partake in behaviors that are typical of a teenager you are chipping away at the foundation of your marriage. A marriage that does not have transparency in all areas is a marriage with secrets. Those secrets will destroy the best of marriages. Not allowing YOUR spouse to see the real you can allow for questioning the true nature of your relationship. You may ask... "Does my spouse love me or do they just love the me I pretend to be?" Risky behaviors, will catch up with you. Nothing that you do exists in a vacuum. You will get caught, discovered or found out. If you want a different marriage then your marriage needs you to stop engaging in risky behavior that sabotage it. ME is not WE. When the two of you became one, part of that agreement was the declaration of putting your own selfish desires behind the desires of your spouse. When the focus is on what you want and your own needs being satisfied, your marriage will wither and die because of the lack of attention to your spouse. Are you ready to grow up so your marriage can experience all that you and your spouse desire? In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about why your marriage needs you to grow up and stop acting like a teenager so that you don't miss out on all that your marriage can be. EPISODE SPONSOR | Minter & Richter Titanium Rings Minter & Richter work from their studio housed in Boston’s Historic Rum Distillery, Scott, Owner, Ring Maker & Metalsmith Extraordinaire, meticulously crafts each ring custom to order. Combining titanium with everything from the exotic – water buffalo horn, to the everyday – concrete, and special found objects that customers send, Scott is continually reinventing the idea of what a ring should be. Get your customer ring today! LIVE TRAINING - More Love, Less Conflict: How To Use Open and Honest Communication For A Stronger Marriage Rescue My Marriage Today Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Did you know the average couple waits six years to get help for challenges in their marriage?
0:04.3	That's six years of struggling and feeling like something's off.
0:07.2	Of wondering why you can't seem to change things.
0:09.6	Stop waiting and apply for coaching today at one extraordinary marriage.
0:13.0	dot com slash coaching.
0:15.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being
0:19.1	busy is overdone.
0:20.3	Romancing is fun and scheduling sex is taking the guesswork out of wondering
0:24.3	when you're gonna get some. I'm Tony Deloreenzo your co-host along with my
0:28.0	beautiful wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you
0:32.3	for joining us.
0:33.2	It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.
0:36.4	Give us a call at 858, 876, 563.
0:40.3	That's 858, 876, 5663.
0:45.0	In today's show, we talk about why acting like a teenager is making you miss out
0:50.0	and all that your marriage can be.
0:53.0	And journalist Nancy Gibbs had this to say about those teenage years,
0:58.0	and she said most of us were probably less than immaculately honest as teenagers. It's practically encoded into
1:04.6	adolescents that you savor your secrets, dress in disguise, carve out some space
1:09.7	for experiments and accidents and all the combustible lab work of becoming who you are.
1:15.2	And it's really interesting that as we've been doing one extraordinary marriage now for
1:19.7	over six years, that we see a lot of those same behaviors, those teenage behaviors
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