318. Stalked by a Stand-Up Comedian
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Strictly Stalking
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🗓️ 17 February 2026
⏱️ 57 minutes
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Pam was stalked by a fellow stand-up comedian who wouldn't accept rejection. What started as persistent, unwanted romantic attention escalated the moment Pam drew a clear line. She blocked him. She left shows early. She involved her husband. She asked venues to intervene. But none of it stopped the contact. Instead, it evolved. The harassment seeped into group chats, traveled through mutual friends, and spread in quiet conversations behind her back. Rumors replaced reality. Lies became louder than the truth. And slowly, Pam didn't just lose gigs — she lost friendships, opportunities, and eventually her place within the comedy community she had worked so hard to build.
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| 0:00.0 | I have really mixed feelings about this because I flirted with this person, but also they won't go away. |
| 0:05.6 | They won't respect my boundaries. |
| 0:07.6 | I'm Jamie Beebe. |
| 0:09.1 | And I'm Jake Deptula. |
| 0:10.6 | On today's episode of Strictly Stock and we're speaking with Pam, we stalked by a fellow |
| 0:14.3 | stand-of-comedian who refused to take no for an answer. |
| 0:17.8 | What began as unwanted romantic attention escalated when Pam set boundaries. She blocked him, |
| 0:23.6 | left shows, involved her husband, and asked venues to step in, but the contact didn't stop. |
| 0:30.1 | Instead, followed her through group chats, third parties, and whispers behind her back. As |
| 0:34.7 | rumors spread, the lies took hold, Pam lost gigs, friends, and ultimately |
| 0:38.5 | her space in the comedy community. Pam, thank you for joining us today. Thank you. Take us back |
| 0:44.4 | to a time when you really decided to jump head first into comedy. I've always been someone who |
| 0:50.4 | enjoyed public speaking. I wanted to practice my skills because I didn't have any |
| 0:55.8 | like outlet for that at the moment. And so when I was 35, I started looking into opportunities |
| 1:04.8 | in my city to go to open mics. And I had a five-month-old baby at that time. And when I talked about where the |
| 1:13.4 | open mics, they said, they're on Monday nights at 10 p.m. at this bar. And I said, that doesn't work well for me. |
| 1:20.4 | But then as time went on, I thought, well, I'm up nursing her at all hours of the night anyway. I might as well |
| 1:26.3 | try to go. So I did. And I actually brought |
| 1:29.3 | her to, I think, my second open mic. So that was a little crazy. I was the, I've always been |
| 1:35.4 | different. I've been the 35-year-old starting out comedian with an infant with me. What kind of |
| 1:42.4 | responses you get when you were in front of the audience in doing this? |
| 1:46.2 | Oh, really positive. People were, I think that they value, the group of comedians that we had then |
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