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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

314: STOP HOPING, START DOING

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2016

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Lack of action, apathy, laziness are marriage killers.  In this life you have two options, you are either growing or you’re not. When you wish or hope for change without doing what you need to be doing that’s not growth. That’s being outwardly focused. That’s expecting others to do the changing why you sit back and wait. We've both done this in our marriage over the years. At some point in time you've been frustrated with your marriage. Be it emotionally, financially, sexually, and/or spiritually.  When all you do is hope that the situation will change you put all of the responsibility on your spouse.  Marriage is a 100% / 100% commitment. That's 100% effort from each of you. It’s time for you to take your hope, for you to take your wishful thinking and give it some power. Give it some action as you start doing something to create growth and change. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about the power of hope when it’s combined with action as you start doing something different in your marriage. EPISODE SPONSOR | Rescue My Marriage Today Waitlist You want change in your marriage because everything you have tried hasn’t worked to this point. You listen to the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show and think, I want what they and so many other couples have. Resuce My Marriage Today will turn your marriage around and get you back to feeling wanted, connected and intimate. Sign up for the waitlist now. 140 - Scheduling Sex QBQ! The Question Behind the Question Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

0:04.0

We're being busy as overdone.

0:06.0

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

0:11.0

I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful

0:14.4

wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex,

0:20.9

love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858, 876, 5663. That's 858, 876, 5663.

0:30.0

In today's show, we talk about the power of hope when it's combined with action as you

0:37.2

start doing something different in your marriage.

0:40.0

And I want to share with you a quote that I actually said to a woman I was talking with last

0:44.8

week when she said that she hoped her marriage would change.

0:47.9

And I looked at her and I said, you know what?

0:50.8

Hope without action is frustration.

0:54.0

And I'm betting that there are a lot of you that can relate to that,

0:57.0

that you've been hoping for something for a long time,

1:00.0

but you haven't seen a lot of action, so now you're just frustrated and we're

1:03.7

going to be talking about that quite in depth in today's show but before we go

1:07.2

there you know that Tony and I love to start each and every one extraordinary

1:11.4

marriage show with a hug with some kind of impact

1:14.7

that the two of you have experienced in your marriage and this week is no

1:18.4

different and this week's hug is brought to you by one extraordinary marriages

1:21.9

rescue my marriage today. is brought to you by one extraordinary marriages, Rescue My Marriage Today.

1:24.7

Every week we get emails from couples who are saying, Tony and Elisa, we need more help in our

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