311: JEALOUSY (THE GREEN EYED MONSTER)

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 16 February 2016

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Jealousy is destructive to both the one who is being jealous and the one who is receiving it. After 19 years of marriage we've experienced jealousy at different times and over different things. Jealousy can take the form of: interrogations about where someone has been, what they have been doing or who they were with searching through your spouse's phone or through a computer questioning any time that your spouse happens to look at a member of the opposite sex rifling through their bags/suitcases/briefcases for “evidence” increasing anxiety over what your spouse does when you are not around them Where does jealousy come from? There is no easy answer but there are a number of ways that it can begin in one’s life. These include: Low Self Esteem - being told that you are not good enough, pretty enough, handsome enough, smart enough Feelings of insecurity or fear of abandonment - being hurt in the past can set you up to try and protect yourself in the future Fear of vulnerability or fear of rejection - the fear that if you reveal your true self you will be loved less, that by sharing who you truly are your spouse will not love you Jealousy is destructive in marriage. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about the impact jealousy has on your marriage and what you can do about it. EPISODE SPONSOR | I Love You But I Don't Trust You Webinar Join us for the “I Love You But I Don’t Trust You: 4 Simple Strategies To Build, Maintain, and Regain Trust In Your Relationship” webinar on Wednesday December 2nd. During this free webinar you will learn: A practical step-by-step process for rebuilding trust after porn, infidelity, suspicion and harmful mistakes (even if your partner is not on board). Register today for our I Love You But I Don’t Trust You Webinar. Connect Like You Did When You First Met: 101 Proven Questions for Couples 4 Simple Tools to Improve Communication with Your Spouse via Wellness Mom Life Connecting Like We Did When We First Met via A Prioritized Marriage Communication in Our Marriage via Country Living and Penny Pinching Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is the One Extraordinary Marriage Show.
0:04.1	We're being busy is overdone.
0:05.7	Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're
0:10.0	going to get some.
0:11.0	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife,
0:14.3	Elisa, from coast to coast and around the world. Thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and
0:20.5	commitment. Give us a call at 858-765663.
0:25.0	That's 858-876-5663.
0:30.0	In today's show, we talk about the impact jealousy has on your marriage and what you can do about it.
0:36.7	William Penn, the founder of the state of Pennsylvania, had this to say about jealousy.
0:41.2	He said the jealous are troublesome to others but a torment
0:45.7	to themselves and that's what we're really going to be digging into on today's show.
0:50.5	Before we do that we start each and every one extraordinary marriage episode with a hug
0:54.7	And this week's yay, it's the crowd noise this week's hug is brought to you by one extraordinary
0:59.9	marriages I love you but I don't trust you webinar trust those five little
1:05.4	letters that have so much power in your marriage when trust is present it feels
1:09.6	like you can handle everything and when trust has ever said I love you but I don't trust
1:18.3	you you need to join us for the I love you but I don't trust you, four simple strategies to build, maintain,
1:25.0	and regain trust in your relationship webinar on Thursday, February 25th.
1:30.4	During this free webinar, you're going to learn a practical step-by-step process for
1:33.9	rebuilding trust after porn infidelity suspicion and harmful mistakes
1:37.4	even if your partner is not on board. This webinar is going to fill up so make sure you register today at one
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