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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

31: How to Overcome Negative Self-Talk (Especially After a Breakup)

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 17 June 2020

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

“How do you avoid negative self-talk after a breakup? My ex was extremely critical and I want him out of my head.”

I say “we,” because I’m not alone in this one.

I’m joined by a very special friend of mine, Jeannie Mai (@thejeanniemai)– Emmy Award-winning co-host of “The Real,” and host of the podcast “Listen Hunnay.” Jeannie is wonderfully entertaining to listen to, and has a first rate mind on these things, as you’ll her from the podcast.

And, what makes this “extra” special is that it's taken from a 90-minute interview I did just for my Love.Life members, so you’ll get a taste of what goes on behind the curtain of my private membership.

If you are struggling with negative self-talk, this podcast is literally a precise prescription for what to do next. It’s 7 minutes of listening that will make your life better today, I promise. P.S. If you find this video as valuable as I know you will, and would like to watch the full 90-minute interview, you can access it right now with a free 14-day trial to our Love.Life Membership.

Claim your trial at http://www.AskMH.com.

Transcript

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And women, we do this to ourselves.

0:02.0

For some reason, we bash ourselves.

0:05.5

We think about the woodcutter shudder.

0:07.0

You're sitting there, loofying your body,

0:08.6

and you're like, yeah, I shouldn't have said this.

0:10.6

Should we have broken up?

0:11.7

Did I end it too soon?

0:12.5

Because that feeling of loneliness is scary.

0:14.6

It is scary to me.

0:15.9

You're wondering, I gotta, maybe I should just say this.

0:19.0

This week, I invited my charismatic, funny and razor sharp friend, Jeannie Mai, to come

0:37.5

and join me and my love life members for a special, exclusive session.

0:43.0

This is so cool!

0:44.6

Hi, Sally, hi, Mickey Ray, hi, Andrea, hi, Leslie, hi, Jazzy.

0:48.4

So we talked about so many things from dating, confidence, getting back into dating again,

0:54.0

how to show vulnerability in a relationship, how to stick up for yourself, one of our best

0:58.5

sessions ever.

0:59.5

I feel like I'm on a QVC chat.

1:01.6

It's so live and exciting.

1:03.0

It's like very energetic.

1:04.0

I love this.

1:05.0

And I wanted to bring you a piece of this because so many people out there are struggling

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