I discovered he was lying about horn and he was lusting over other women, which, you know, we see things.

We see their eyes.

We see where their attention is.

We feel it.

And it was excruciating to me to find all of it out and know that my suspicions were right.

Jessica was crushed by the betrayal and desperate for the pain to stop.

We were up till 4 a.m. I was screaming, throwing things. He would leave. It was so, it was just

very toxic and very hostile. And we would just go round and round in circles of, you don't love me. Yes, I do. No,

you don't. And it was just this, this toxicness that I didn't know. I had no hope that we

were going to be able to get out of it, honestly. In her search for answers, she joined support

groups for wives of porn addicts. So many boundaries. They're really heavy on the

boundaries. And I'm like, these just don't feel good to me because then I'm forcing you and you really want to.

And that's not what I want. I wanted him to not want to look at other, you know.

Divorce seemed like the only way out until her friend pointed out the flaw in that plan. She told me,

she said, you know, most women who divorce are not happier after they divorce. And it stopped me in

my tracks. And I'm like, wait a second, that ruins my whole plan. And I looked it up and it's true.

Many people are not, they don't go on to be happier. That's when she stumbled on my podcast and she decided to try it out that very night.

And the results blew her mind.

What is happening? Like I couldn't believe how easy it was. And there was proof that like he did want to make me happy.

He did.

What happened next was more than she ever dared to hope for.

Oh, it made me sob, honestly. It was so, it's what I always wanted. I just always wanted him to be

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