306. Feminist Marriage Brain Part 1 — Engagement Expectations
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
Kara Loewentheil
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🗓️ 7 September 2023
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
We're socialized to believe that the way other people act is about us. Women are socialized to want big romantic gestures from men, which they then equate to how much the man loves them, which equates to how valuable they are as a woman. Newsflash: Other people’s behavior is not actually about you.
Tune in this week to find out why our expectations of how we want other people to behave (in all sorts of contexts) are influenced by our behavior, how engagements and the expectations that go along with them are a microcosm of where we’re at in society today, and why elaborate engagements make less sense in today’s society than they did in the past.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to UnFuck Your Brain, the only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism, and coaching to rewire your brain |
| 0:16.3 | and get what you want in life. |
| 0:18.6 | And now here's your host, Harvard Law School grad, Feminist Rockstar, and Master Coach, |
| 0:24.7 | Kara Loyenthyle. |
| 0:28.0 | Listen up y'all, if you are a certified coach from any certification or you are a therapist or you know social worker, |
| 0:39.6 | psychologist, psychotherapist, any therapist who works with cognitive-based approaches, I have something for you. |
| 0:46.0 | It's free. It's essential. It's concise and powerful. And it's coming soon, but you have to opt in to get it. I have created a |
| 0:55.4 | brand new private podcast called How to Coach Like a Feminist, adding a feminist |
| 1:01.0 | lens to coaching or cognitive-based therapy. |
| 1:04.0 | So whether you are a certified life coach or a licensed mental health professional, |
| 1:08.0 | this is essential listening if you work with women or people socialize as women. |
| 1:12.0 | You may not identify as a feminist, but society |
| 1:15.6 | identifies your clients as women if they are women or socialize as women, and that means |
| 1:20.9 | that their brains are being impacted and your brains being impacted by how society |
| 1:26.2 | thinks about and treats women. |
| 1:28.4 | That is why having a feminist lens on your coaching or on your cognitive-based therapy is so important. |
| 1:35.2 | So in this private podcast, I'm really distilling down to the essence the most important powerful |
| 1:41.6 | points on kind of every stage of having especially a |
| 1:46.8 | coaching but also some forms of a therapeutic relationship from how you market |
| 1:51.7 | and describe yourself and your services from a feminist |
| 1:54.1 | lens, how you create the container and the relationship with your client, with |
| 1:59.5 | a feminist lens, which is something that is so often overlooked, how you actually coach or provide services |
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