Hello, Winebers. My name is Jesse Meekham and this is podcast number 3004 for Wineab,

where we teach you four rules to help you stop leaving paycheck to pay check, get out of debt and save more money.

Around the holidays and we are getting, oh so close, we tend to just kind of get whipsawed back and forth.

I talked about that last week, the idea of setting limits for what you would promise to do,

and making sure that the things that really matter most to you are those things that are done

and maybe saying no to a few more things. that really most see where those things that are done

and maybe saying no to a few more things.

It's interesting as the holidays kind of press upon us

that we really have to go back to our roots and we really have to maybe not so quickly say,

oh, this is what matters to me, this is what matters to me, and take the defaults, but really

pause. Maybe give it an hour or so maybe take a

pencil and paper and figure out what really matters to you what are your

roots and emphasize those strengthen those and a lot of the times at

least what I'm finding when I did this exercise just the other day those don't

take a lot of money when you want to strengthen those routes

it usually revolves around family friends meaningful relationships time well

spent and has very little to do with anything that a marketer would talk

about. They might show you pictures of happy families, but they're trying to hawk something,

that's for sure. so I would encourage you as things are getting

really stressful and really picking up the pace that you just pause and figure out

how do I get back to my roots how do I get back to what's most

important about this season and then be true to that and don't let yourself get

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