303: Patterns of Avoidance
Your Virtual Upline Podcast
Bob Heilig
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 24 May 2022
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
What are the things you do INSTEAD of taking the action tied to your Red Light Story?
We're all guilty of avoiding the difficult and tough actions in our business.
We often do the easier tasks because in the moment they provide a temporary sense of relief.
While it may seem easier in the moment, it's keeping you from your Growth Oriented Actions, which are necessary for our business.
In this episode, I discuss Patterns of Avoidance and how you can conquer it to transform your business.
Episode Quotes
"Growth lies in the action and execution."
"Engaging in patterns of avoidance is a short term pleasure for long term pain."
"True confidence is having the ability to feel any feeling, without having it define your sense of who you really are."
"The fastest way to FREEDOM is to learn how to feel your feelings."
Listen to Learn
01:25 - Review of the Week, Student of the Week
03:09 - Creating boundaries and honoring priorities
04:47 - The Manage Your Mind framework
06:14 - Red light stories and patterns of avoidance
12:44 - Personal stories and conquering patterns of avoidance
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Bob here and welcome back to your virtual upline podcast where we give network marketers |
| 0:13.0 | the mindset, strategies and skills that you need to build the business and life of your |
| 0:19.4 | dreams. |
| 0:20.4 | Hey Bob here, welcome to the show episode 303 today we discuss something that we teach |
| 0:29.3 | called patterns of avoidance. |
| 0:32.1 | This is a really important topic for us to discuss today and the question that I want |
| 0:38.3 | to start the process of you thinking about because the answers to these questions are |
| 0:42.4 | really important in your development and growth in your business. |
| 0:46.3 | What are the things that you do as a way to avoid the difficult and sometimes scary actions |
| 0:54.5 | that you know you need to take in your business? |
| 0:57.7 | So when we think of those handful of things that we just know we need to do more of or |
| 1:02.2 | we need to do more consistently whether it's prospecting or reels or creating content, |
| 1:08.2 | training, whatever it is we always have those at least one or two things that in the |
| 1:11.8 | back of our mind we're like I know I need to do these more often but for whatever |
| 1:15.2 | reason we can never bring ourselves to do it or we can't be consistent long enough to |
| 1:19.8 | see results. |
| 1:20.8 | Why is that? |
| 1:22.1 | Well it's because you've developed patterns of avoiding those things and this understanding |
| 1:28.0 | what these are for you is so important because it's really one of the first steps to learning |
| 1:33.8 | how to transform your results. |
| 1:35.6 | So I can't wait to have this conversation with you. |
| 1:37.5 | We just taught this inside of our new love serve grow program last week and I just want |
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