I do think as a couple when you're making decisions, you have to speak up and use what you learned.

So if you're one of those partners out there and you're feeling so resentful, like you constantly feel depleted, you're in a bad mood, you're mad at your partner.

I do think it is part of your job to say, hey, that did not work for me.

Like we need a better solution. It can all be on my shoulders. We've got to figure out what's

going to work a little bit better. I'm Amy. And I'm Abby. And as women, we are constantly

comparing ourselves to others.

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers. Being your best self means standing firm in your

decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose. We get vulnerable and real with an honest

look into the challenges and triumphs we all face. Every woman listening

gets the opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

Hi, you guys. Welcome to another episode. We're just going to chat through a lot of the things

that have been going on for us. Abby and I are both into learning lessons. So we make mistakes, but take the lesson with you. And we're talking a lot about how that applies to motherhood. Because right now we're in a season of transition as we go from we're almost through

summer by the time this episode airs we're pretty much through summer and we're going into fall

but from my perspective there's a lot that I can take from this summer and apply it to fall

and then also apply it to next summer.

So you've got to every once in a while, slow down, think about how things went,

reflect, give yourself and your family some edits, and then move on to the next season,

and hopefully each time that feels a little bit better. Well, when we were preparing for this episode, we talk

really real to each other. So if I'm saying something that might be out of line or maybe I have

some room for growth, Amy's very good about telling me exactly what I need to do. I'm going to give you

some self-reflection from my need to you. So if I were to edit that, how would you? And we do. We talk about that because it's important to not always, especially in a really good friendship, it's important to not always be the yes person. It's important to not always be like, yep, you got this. You're exactly right. Sometimes you need some good feedback because otherwise we're just going to stay stuck. Well, it's interesting when you hear your friend talk and you're like, that's not my experience of how you experienced that from what you told me,

but that's interesting that that's what you think happened. So we all do that. It's like whether

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