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into the podcast. The guy who's purposely not giving you closure, he's saying it's over, but

it then strings you along with a random text here, a random text there, and he's kind of like keeping you on the back burner

in case whatever other person he's pursuing doesn't work out so we can come back to you. Or

just kind of like breadcrumbing you along, kind of keeping you interested. So he always has

that possibility. He's basically just praying on your emotions because he knows you want to

rekindle this relationship.

All right, Gary, today we're going to be talking about breakups.

And for whatever reason, like talking about breakups is something that I've generally

avoided over the past decade because in my mind, like the dark underbelly of the dating coaching industry is like how to get

your ex back. How do you do it? Like the three simple words that will get your ex back. And I think

that that's what's drawn me to you, you know, what drew me to you many years ago when I first saw

your TED talk about breakups. I'm like, this is the real deal stuff about how to overcome breakups, how to move forward

with your life rather than like manipulating your ex into falling back in love with you.

So yeah, I think this would be a really good topic for anyone who is going through a breakup

and can move forward in their life.

Yeah, I mean, because when it comes down to it, they're your ex for a reason.

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